I grew up not knowing my father. I got his number in Feb of 05 and since then I have seen him a few times over the past 2 years and know him a little better. We have somewhat of a relationhsip. Now I am engaged and I told him his girlfriend would not be invited to the wedding. He is more than welcome but she is not. She is 3 years older than me and I am 25. My father is 58. She has lost custody of her kids due to alcohol and drug use,(state has custody of her youngest) she has stolen from and cheated on my father, she just got out of jail for possession of crack and did some time in rehab. She is using my father and he knows this. I sent him an email informing him she would not be invited for these reasons and he called me self righteous and judgmental and said I was putting myself on a pedestal. He said that I should not look down on on others less fortunate. She made her choices and I dont feel bad for her. Am I self righteous like he said or right to feel this way?
2006-07-27
19:32:54
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Sarah J
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