Unfortunately I married one of those men that are still about the mentality of 20. He thinks if he works his 40 hrs./wk. the rest of the time is his. He smokes, drinks, likes to hang with others that are the same. The first year he was pretty good, sweet, so that is why I did marry him, I saw the good in there - that was 9 yrs. ago. It hasn't come back. A couple of years ago I started trying to talk to him, asked him to leave, at least for a while to see what we would miss about eachother. I felt that I didn't love him anymore. During this we were blessed with two healthy beautiful children. We live in a house that has been in MY family and is now mine and was some time before I met him. He has a temper. I even have a domestic violence advocate. He refused to leave and obviously I cannot leave since this is MY house. Finally he agreed to leave, but only if he took the children. I agreed, to get him out and not cause a scene. His family has $ and I now can't get them back.
2006-07-07
12:33:27
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