I have been married for 16 years. For at least half of it, it has been going downhill. I just recently came to the realization that I do not love my wife, and that I probably never did... I just married her because she was the first woman who pursued me, and after failed relationships I took what I could get.
Since my son was born 8½ years ago it has gotten progressively worse. When he was one year old, she hit me... hard. Then, three years ago, she hit me again. One year ago, AGAIN... then three weeks ago, a fourth time. She has gotten more angry. This last time she said it was my fault for making her so angry, and I just have to not make her angry.
I have also discovered that to control my son in public, she pinches him. Hard. Hard enough to bruise his arm or leg.
I want out. She's gotten more violent, her temper more out of control. I do not trust her, with me or with my son.
What would you do? Leave, or stay?
2006-06-27
02:10:09
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Bubbajones
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Marriage & Divorce