My bf has to move back home to Coventry, I live about 2 hours from there. We've only just got together after liking eachother for ages. Will it work or is it doomed from the start?
2006-06-27 02:08:13 · 20 answers · asked by northukstudent 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A relationship has to be worked at and there is never any guarantees. There has to be give and take on both sides. I think that you need to forget about worrying about whether your relationship is going to succeed or not and enjoy it instead and if it works out then fantastic and if it does not then you will get over it in time. Good luck x
2006-06-27 02:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will work as long as you both want it to work and both make an effort to try at things. I had a long distance relationship once. We met on holiday and tried to carry it on afterwards. There was about 2 hours in between me and him and it worked for so long and then he dumped me by phone might I add and at the time I got bit upset over things. But now I am with a brilliant man and we are really happy together and he is the man for me so you see things happen for a reason. If it doesn't work then it means that its not meant to.. but if you and him are meant together then you will stick at it. I probably haven't made any sense at all with this have I ?
2006-06-27 02:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by lovelygal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would communicate to him that your not sure how this long distance relationship can draw the two of you together, however lets do all we can to make something of it. Then judge whether its enough or not...The connection has been made, unless it was for the wrong reasons I'd say there is more to this test than keeping you both apart, perhaps it was meant to realize how much the both of you care about each other...discuss some guide lines and make a decision based on how things turn out for the both of you whether your going to continue the relationship or not...good luck.
2006-06-27 02:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be you will find a way of making it work. People say long distance relationships don't work - 2hrs isn't that far away really is it? It means you will not get sick of each other as you are not living in each other's pockets I hope it does work out for you both. Give it a go nothing ventured nothing gained. Good luck.
2006-06-27 02:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by missieclass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance puts a strain on relationships but if you both find that you have 100% trust in the other, then you have a shot at beating the odds against you. Good Luck!
2006-06-27 02:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Daffy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to look into what it is that could be consided a true and realistic method to determine what amounts to what everyone faces around the edge of a true and sometimes far and distant path to find the reason for and even when you get down to the nuts and bolts of the issue and then you find the true ideas of why i am writing this garbage in the first place
2006-06-27 02:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No 2 hours is not a long way train car coach weekends people live alot further than that and make it work
2006-06-27 02:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by dizzymooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work. 2 hours is not the ends of the earth. What's more important is how solid you two are emotionally. How much you trust each other and can support each other while you are not together. Best wishes.
2006-06-27 02:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by marsvenusgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like it then make it work. usually long distant relationships dont work. if you two really like eachother and want to be together then you both need to put in effort in making it work
2006-06-27 02:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by Courtney A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a go. You won't know until you try. If you have been friends for a while, this relationship will proabably work out.
2006-06-27 02:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋