I've been married for seven years, very happy most of the time. Our sex life is above average, 2-3 times/week. I love her very much and want to grow old with her.
But I'm still pretty young (30), good looking, and women are attracted to me. Over the last 6 months, while travelling, I have cheated on her twice. Both were quick one-hour-stands.
I know why it happened: I have a high sex drive, I loved the attention I was getting, I liked the naughtiness, and I loved feeling and smelling another woman.
Our marriage is pretty open, but this would absolutely devestate her. To me, it was just sex, but to her it would mean the break of our trust.
I would love to say that I could stop right here, never cheat on her again, and that's that. But I'm not sure. As much as I love her, the thought of just sleeping with one woman for the next 40 years is bugging me.
Please reserve your judgement - I'm looking for prof advise or from someone in the same situtaion.
Do I tell her? Do I need prof. help?
2006-06-23
02:05:49
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LostCharlie
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Marriage & Divorce