I have no idea what to do. For 4 years of our marriage I have never been satisfied (although before the wedding he did a good job always), and during these 4 years we have sex 1 time in a month (that's a lucky year!), right now - it has been 1 month and 3 weeks. Everything is fine in the family, except sex. I hate this so much. I talked to him hundred times. He says he always is ready, but it's my fault - I don't want to, or I don't have time, etc. That is not true though. Just last night I was waiting for him, he came into the bedroom, I started coming on him, but he turned to the wall and fell asleep. I am desperate. I do not know what is going on. I am a good-looking, nice and attractive. Is he cheating on me? I am so tired of this. It would be much easier if he would say - hey, I cheat on you. Or - hey, I don't love you. I am really thinking about a divorce. I can't live like that...Please, I need your opinion. This is going on for all 4 years (we dated for 2 years bef. wedding).
2006-06-10
22:55:46
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Cristy
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Marriage & Divorce