This has really got me wondering lately... Everytime me and my friend from Korea go to a teriyaki restaurant together, the person who brings us the food always gives me a fork, and him a pair of chopsticks. Now, I happen to be quite adept as using chopsticks, so I find this rather insulting to say the least.
So, why do they *Always* give me a fork, and him a pair of chopsticks, no matter which restaurant we go to? (We have tried about 7 so far). I wonder if the same applies in reverse; if you are of asian descent but are born and raised in America, would you be insulted if you got handed a pair of chopsticks and your caucasian friend got given a fork? You feel akward about being treated differently?
Is this something that is done totally subconciously, or do you think the person giving bringing the food to the table makes a concious decision to give one person a fork, and the other chopsticks?
All theories are welcome.
2006-07-22
23:34:20
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