Cultures & Groups - 19 September 2006

Alright here are a few if it's too personal then I mean no offense and you don't have to answer.
I'm just wondering.

Gay men :
1. Did u have a Father growing up?
2. Did u have passive father figure or a firm father figure?
3. Have u ever been sexually molested by a male or female? (don't have to answer that if u dont' want just answer in your head)
4. Do you love your mom more than your dad?
5. Was your mother controlling or posessive growing up?
6. Was your father?
7. Were u constantly teased throughout your life about being gay even before you came out?
8. Do you love yourself?
9. Do you hate yourself?
10. What's the farthest age back that you can remember feeling attracted to males? Actual age

Lesbian females:
Pretty much the same as the questions for the males just flip the genders you get what I mean.

I would appreciate the answers don't have to answer all of them just whichever ones you want.
Again no offense it is a learning tool.

Love,
mmmk92

2006-09-19 11:07:08 · 19 answers · asked by mmmk92 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

He wants me to start looking up some unmentianable stuff and I would like to look as many different places as possible. (some of those websites can be REALLY hard to find).

Thanks!
mandi

2006-09-19 11:04:04 · 4 answers · asked by Mandi of the Pants 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

i'm an out puerto rican lesbian and i'd like to meet like minded people. any of you out there?

2006-09-19 10:59:13 · 5 answers · asked by hot_latte73 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i can't force myself to go make the first move, so how do i get him to make the first move and come and talk to me? He's really cute but we haven't even said a word and i don't even know his name, and nobody can tell me anythin about him cause i haven't seen him around any people. I really don't want to make the first move here and him not like me and be rejected so what should i do?

2006-09-19 10:58:23 · 11 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I just realized something. A lot of people in the gay community are not going to want to get behind this guy and support him. Because it makes them look bad. He probably is having trouble being accepted by people who he wants to call his own. When I posted a question in here about how people felt about him I didn't get a lot of answers from people in the gay community defending him. I realized that gov Mcgreevey is not a very good representation to show to the world. The gay communtiy would rather keep things like cheating and shallow relationships out of the lime light. They would rather keep that to themselves kinda like a secret. I do genuinely feel bad for him though he is obviously very confused I feel just as bad for him as any other person who is confused and hurting I guess I just hearing his interview made my heart burn in sorrow for him not gonna lie a few tears for the man ya know. poor babe.

2006-09-19 10:40:09 · 11 answers · asked by mmmk92 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

investigate and prosecute the
goyim who say they're jews, but are not,
who are leading israel to ruin - who sodomize,
pimp and abort the children of israel. reduce aids.
allow gay marriage and outlaw promiscuous sodomy.
child molesters should be ,`,`,arked on the face, tethered, castrated and given phrikken labotomies.
condemn and abolish legal minor abuse,
prostitution, child abortion, and mandatory
idf service in israel. dissolve the federal reserve.
return to the gold standard.
save the usa and israel.

rep ron paul - 202-225-2831

sen lugar - 202-224-4814

sen mccain - 202-224-2235

sen clinton - 202-224-4451

sen schumer - 202-224-6542

the president - 202-456-1111

2006-09-19 10:38:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

how do i tell my dad who recently told me he wuz homosexual(gay) that i don't feel comfortable around hiz boyfriend nd that it is going to take me some time for me to adjust to him/it.And that i don't wanna meet ne of hiz b/f's or 'gay' friends yet.

2006-09-19 10:35:48 · 14 answers · asked by Jazzi_Pha 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

If you're tired of being put down because you are gay then why not fight? Why not start a civil war and get your rights? Why not come together as a group and once and for all storm together for what we believe in. Why don't we elect a leader and start our own group for our way of life? We as a people need to focus and try and not just sit on our butts and cry about it but FIGHT and WIN!

2006-09-19 10:30:39 · 21 answers · asked by J.C. 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

http://answers.yahoo.com/my/profile;_ylt=An_SYneduVx8g8ovJWLa800ezKIX?show=2c3b2a321a180fe58f7fd465951a03efaa

Is she anti-everything or what? Her nick says much of her attitude! Can't we all just report her, she's such a moron!

2006-09-19 10:30:36 · 30 answers · asked by ? 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i hear so many ppl saying thiz in there questions......so i waz wondering wat it meant!

2006-09-19 10:19:16 · 10 answers · asked by Jazzi_Pha 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

There are so many homophobic questions on this board...Is it more effective to respond to these comments, or not respond at all? It seems to me that leaving answers for these people only fuels the fire....your thoughts??

2006-09-19 10:12:40 · 13 answers · asked by ThisMess 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Ok guys, my question is the following:
If you rate yourself on a gayness scale (of 1-10), starting with 1 as being '100%' straight (Although everyone experienced some gayness in one point of ther lives, but assume it's 100%) and 10 as '100%' gay. Where are you on this scale? Can you explain the results?

And curious guys, how often did you have this urge to be with a guy?

2006-09-19 10:11:28 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Should Ex-Gov McGrevy be serving a long jail term for corruption? He had gay sex in office, hired his gay lover to be Security Director and other illegal acts. Now he writes a book to profit from his wrongful deeds.

2006-09-19 10:02:40 · 9 answers · asked by az33 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Men who like thick women-what is the differnce between a 'thick' woman and a fat woman? Women should not answer this question unless she can be objective! Thank you!

2006-09-19 10:02:27 · 4 answers · asked by marquella_la_nice 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Before you answer, you must see this piece about an Arabic translator who was discharged for being gay.

From the Daily Show. :-)

http://www.exgaywatch.com/blog/archives/2006/09/paul_cameron_on_2.html

2006-09-19 09:57:51 · 20 answers · asked by GreenEyedLilo 7 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-19 09:52:14 · 6 answers · asked by fireman 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Exodus, the ex-gay group, has a youth division. And they've created something called "Allies, Too", in which kids who believe homosexuality is wrong but don't think their LGBT friends should be beaten up can pledge their support for safer schools.

They're piggybacking onto GLSEN's "Ally Week" this October, in which straight kids pledge support for their LGBT peers.

Is this a good thing or a scam, do you think?

I myself want to take it as a good sign, but am not sure about that "truth" thing. Their "truth" is that homosexuality is wrong and gay people can and should change.

See here:

http://groundswell2006.org/truth/resources.htm

2006-09-19 09:42:54 · 5 answers · asked by GreenEyedLilo 7 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Guy had an affair with a man while his wife was in labor. Broke apart his family.

2006-09-19 09:42:37 · 5 answers · asked by mmmk92 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-19 09:38:24 · 13 answers · asked by Lexus 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-19 09:22:22 · 10 answers · asked by Lexus 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I'm irish and am thinking about studying in ireland for a few months. I was wondering what irish culture is all about (i'd kinda like to know that there is more to it than potatos, drinking and lucky charms).

2006-09-19 09:18:37 · 8 answers · asked by fearmymagicbubbles 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I try to be a good friend, a loving and (while I am very low income) I try to be generous with my friends.
My friend and I were sex buddies for a few years. Strong feelings for the man but when it comes time for him to come over, its all on his time. He came over when he wanted to and if I wanted to see him any other time, it just didnt happen. We wouldnt get together for anything other than sex (dinner a few times, but only because I bitched) and sex got to the point where I would get him off and he would roll over and hold me, ignoring my requests (I have to ask?) for reciprocation. I had to finish myself off. If he doesnt want it, I am out of luck. Not long ago he got drepressed and send an email out to his friends I made light of it, because any problem I have is pretty much ignored. Now that he has a problem, everyone is supposed to drop everything and deal with it. He blew up at me, I havent spoken too him since.
Whats with all the selfish people?

2006-09-19 09:08:47 · 7 answers · asked by eddie9551 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-19 09:02:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

I love traci lords especially the young stuff where do I find videos of her on line. I would also be happy to see any of her more mature work as well. I wish I had a chest that looked just like hers!!

2006-09-19 08:52:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

extinct by now ? Or is that still forthcoming ? I'm not trying to be incendiary I am only trying to understand opinions on homosexuality that others have already presented to me.

2006-09-19 08:46:33 · 18 answers · asked by bbq 6 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-19 08:45:08 · 4 answers · asked by dreamy 5 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I had been corresponding with this club I was interested in joining.
Finally I came to a meeting where they voted to accept me, I filled out the application, signed it, and paid my money. The next day I decided I did not want to be a member (despite being assured of some things, I realized the club is very unorganized.) I called and asked them not to deposit the check. They said ok. They then called back and said the $100 membership fee was non refundable. I asked since it hasnt been 24 hours could they just tear up the application & check. Of course they said no.
Do I still owe them this money since I am choosing not to be a member and haven't paid any dues? After all, the money was for membership and not the application.

2006-09-19 08:43:51 · 14 answers · asked by nubnqwen 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Looking for conflict. Over-sensitive.

2006-09-19 08:39:08 · 14 answers · asked by george_the_cat 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Attacking them....accusing them of mortal sins....

2006-09-19 08:34:23 · 12 answers · asked by george_the_cat 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I was REALLY stressed at work and last friday afternoon an African American coworker said "Hey Cracker, want to grab a beer after work?", I responded "Sounds good n**ga, let me grab my coat!".

He shot me a disgusted look and left my office. Yesterday morning my boss told me HR was considering whether or not I should be fired.

Should I be fired?

2006-09-19 08:33:02 · 24 answers · asked by hfacto 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups