Gender Studies - August 2006

I am married to a "man" that without getting into to much detail. To give a little story, is very rude, mean, unloving, not a listener, very spitefull, very very insecure. That pretty much sums it up. He owns his own business, does very well under the hood, mechanically, but very unmechanical in the business aspect of how that should run. I guess, what I am asking is that the majority of people always say leave him, which will be the next step. I really hate having to do this all over again at 45. I am still young, attractive, buildt good. I guess I feel he is absorbing the life out of me, kind of like "Cacoon" Can you relate?

2006-08-25 07:40:56 · 24 answers · asked by candlemia 3

I think it would. Men in this country could travel, watch sporting events, attend concerts, enjoy the outdoors, learn about life and be productive members of society without b!tchy women ruining everyday life like they always do. And then when guys need to find a bride or get laid, they could fly overseas to meet nice, sexy, unpretentious foreign girls overseas. It would be heaven on earth.

American women ruin everything. Life would be better without them.

2006-08-25 07:28:14 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

PLS GIVE RPLY......

2006-08-25 07:22:37 · 3 answers · asked by asha 1

Where there any historical conditions for that?

2006-08-25 07:06:39 · 10 answers · asked by Aurora 4

2006-08-25 07:05:38 · 2 answers · asked by Aurora 4

2006-08-25 07:04:45 · 1 answers · asked by Aurora 4

2006-08-25 07:04:07 · 2 answers · asked by Aurora 4

2006-08-25 07:03:14 · 2 answers · asked by Aurora 4

2006-08-25 07:02:02 · 13 answers · asked by Aurora 4

While attendind the HIV/AIDS conference in Toronto, I attended a presetation by a Kenyan man who teaches gender equality to Kenyan men. Yet, when this man was offstage he siad that "Kenyan woman enjoy a good beating once in awhile. They like it cause it shows their men are strong and virile. And if they don't get beat they are dissapointed". This is not an exageration in any way. This made me sick to my stomach that this man is an "educator" to help men learn to respect women. And if he's the best there is there is really no hope for women to ever be equal. Are there any Kenyans who could address this? I just can't beleive in my heart that any woman wants to be beat. I am so tormented by this and just looking for some feedback.

2006-08-25 06:42:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

did their mums tell them what was going to happen or what?

2006-08-25 06:38:03 · 23 answers · asked by ellen s 1

I met a woman while shopping a week ago, we really hit it off; did the Cafe, and back to my place for lunch. It was great, we made love three times, the third time I had her ankles by my ears while I was pounding away, she’s moaning, starts to tremble then shake and then convulsing, nearly tearing my unit off. Her eyes roll back in her head and she starts shooting liquid everywhere, and then blacks out. I thought she was dead; she opened her eyes a few minutes later, said “hi” then fell asleep for almost three hours. I was totally freaked, she wouldn't wake up, I was covered in this liquid, it wasn't pee either, and I had to get ready for work. She finally wakes up, but she can't walk, and barely made it to the bathroom. She was so embarrassed, and said "it never happened before."

The thing is; I really had a good time with her, I was cracking up, but I don't want this chick dieing on me, is this normal? Has it happen to anyone else before? Does she need to see a Neurologist?

2006-08-25 06:18:25 · 6 answers · asked by Homey 2

I love walking my dogs and being on my own (I have my own place) but sometimes I get a little paranoid from watching the news all the time and hearing about all these horrible attacks on women. So girls, what do you do to feel safe? I have pepper spray and I'm thinking about buying a tazer gun and of course my dogs help me feel protected. What do you do to protect yourself and have you ever felt unsafe?? No nasty remarks by women haters, thank you.

2006-08-25 06:04:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you fix it? what skills, methods do you use? where do you you find help?

2006-08-25 05:47:08 · 10 answers · asked by jimrich 7

and how did they understand menstruation? did they get told about the birds + the bees?

2006-08-25 05:39:50 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know some women tried to live like men.why they do like that?

2006-08-25 05:00:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-25 04:06:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-25 03:25:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

It seems that almost every woman I like turns out to be a lesbian. And it's not just that that's what's they're telling me either. It started like I'll go find her to talk to her, and she's actively being a lesbian with another woman, and I was surprised. Now it's beginning to be formulaic.
What spirit did I offend? Should I plant flowers on an Native American burial ground, hold a seance what? :)
Seriously though,..... I'll take, advice, harsh criticism, and jokes but, no foreign currency or credit cards.

2006-08-25 03:19:53 · 15 answers · asked by Paklo 2

2006-08-25 03:05:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-25 01:01:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-25 00:53:33 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

During the day I am home with my sister because our parents are at work. It is summer, so no school.
Three days ago, it was her turn to clean the house. But she grabbed my crotch from behind, and forced me to do wash the dishes and do all her work! She was enjoying it because sometimes she was giggling. And she was not only grabbing, she was feeling them!!! I could not believe what was happening! I felt so violated and humiliated. At the end, she squeezed my balls anyway, and just stood there laughing, and then locked herself in her room. I knocked at the door and tried to speak to her but she did not talk to me. And after that I just pretended nothing happened, and she is pretending nothing happened too.
I am still a little sore. I did not tell my parents because it is too embarrassing, and bizarre.
Should I forget the whole thing, or should I do something about it??? Wtf?!

2006-08-25 00:35:49 · 10 answers · asked by Aguia_cagona 1

2006-08-25 00:09:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

at 51 that is midde age nowadays, but for women earlier when they use to die before 50, did they have menopauses becaseu they reached middle age for themselves but not 51

2006-08-24 23:48:26 · 7 answers · asked by wingnut 2

Is it a fear of loosing position, power, or something else?

2006-08-24 23:35:59 · 12 answers · asked by Aurora 4

2006-08-24 22:54:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-24 21:37:56 · 18 answers · asked by nunya 3

All women like penis, but how about the testicles? Do you get sexually aroused by thinking about them, or by see them, or touching them? What to you like/dislike about them? I think most women do not care about them or do not like them. And I think that is strange, because it is the symbol of manhood, they produce sperm and testosterone. And men like the entire female body.

2006-08-24 20:40:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-24 18:18:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous