My biggest problem is that I do not want to appear weird, foolish, ignorant, mean or out of place in front of anyone. I don't want to say the wrong things, but it seems that I always do. I always feel like I am being judged unfavorably by everyone around me. I don't try to talk to girls in public because of 1) what I think people around me will think if I get rejected and 2) that I will be rejected anyway. I hardly ever speak my mind unless I am asked directly or I am talking to someone that I trust really well. I am not a highschool student either, I ama
Some people just seem to carry themselves in a way that is accepted by the majority of people. Their opinions and values are at least respected by others. My opinions and values always change based on the situation I am in, because I am scared of looking foolish.
I have been battling this my whole life as I am a 32 year old Engineer.
How does it feel to be free from this daily torture and how can I join your way of living?
2007-06-19
01:29:30
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