I feel horrible, we use protection everytime, and i ended up pregnant. And my husband says he isnt ready to be a father and wants me to have an abortion. He says we are too young, and he wants to be able to travel and see things and that a baby would ruin his life and everything he worked for. But i dont feel right about killing the baby, and i also dont want to ruin his life. I don't know what to do, do i have the baby and have a miserable husband and be left to raise it on my own while he works to suppport us, or do i abort and feel terrible about myself and regret it. I wish i could convince him that it wont ruin his life, but he wont listen. And i am so upset, sad, and lonely and i am scared i would be a bad mom, and i really do not know what to do. Why is this so hard, we should be happy but yet we arnt.
2006-11-28
08:46:33
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JB
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