Hi.
I dated my hubbie for a year before we got married which was a year ago.(I'm with him 2 years in total) He was so enthusiastic at first, then after we got married and started to live together, his desire seemed to be decreased.
We used to have a sex once/twice a week after we started to live together, then once in 2 weeks, and now, we don't have a sex unless I ask him to have one. Even I ask him, he would decline 99 %. Last time we had a sex was a month ago. He said he doesn't have a desire itself. We have talked about it but when it comes to talking about sex, he gets really defensive and tell me that he has never given anyone hard time because he can't get a sex, or has any of his g/f in past ever given him a hard time because he doesn't have a sex with her.
I love him but I am exhausted by this frustration. I just want to dump my sex drive than dealing with him being defensive.
Is there any med that would drop one's sex drive? Thank you in advance!
2007-12-21
05:41:15
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