now don't get me wrong, i LOVE my girlfriend, and in fact we're getting married next year, but she needs to lose weight for health reasons.
we're both 140kilo (308 pounds), but i'm 6'4 with alot of muscle and she's at least a foot shorter than me.
myself and her family are worried about her health, she has really bad knees and gets sick easily, but whenever i try to talk to her about her weight she goes right on the defensive and I can't say anything that she won't take the wrong way and end up crying over
she's a wonderful girl and i love her so much, but i don't want her to end up dying at 50 or even earlier, and we really want kids but i don't think it's healthy for her to get pregnant yet.
i'm at a loss of what to do!!!
2007-03-05
13:38:28
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TedRoy
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