hey im 14 nearly 15 and im in love with my boyfriend and were ready to take it further but i havn't started my periods yet !!
can i have sex b4 i start my period?
2007-03-05 13:11:08 · 30 answers · asked by xgawjusxprincessx 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
NO...NO...and NO....the question is not CAN you.....it is SHOULD you and that answer is a RESOUNDING NO!!!! Enjoy your adolescence, it will be over before you know it. You have plenty of time to have lots of sex in your twenties...and well into your 80's...if you're lucky. But right now, tell your pimply faced boyfriend to enjoy his hand and a sock, because you are going to focus on your education and figure out who you are and where you're going and how to spell "before."
2007-03-05 13:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jiahua D 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋
So I've noticed a trend that everyone that has told you 'no' or to 'wait for a better time' has gotten numerous thumbs down.
I would suggest you read a health book to find out more about how your body works or ask your physician. I'm honestly not sure if you will damage your body, (make it harder for you to have children later in life, heavier periods, etc...) if you start having sex before your periods start. Or talk to your parent(s) about it, they might not agree with you wanting to have sex, but they should be able to give you some facts about your body. Good luck with whatever choices you make, just make the right ones for you, so that you have no regrets later in life!
2007-03-06 00:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jyse 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure you can, but don't listen to people that tell you can't get pregnant if you haven't started your periods yet. You will ovulate about 14 days BEFORE you get your first period, and you won't know until after it's happend. It is quite posssible to get pregnant during this time, so always use protection.
Be smart and stay safe :)
2007-03-05 13:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by kyla_bean 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, physically it's possible but trust me you don't want to have sex right now. You may think that you do but you don't. You're too young and if you have sex now then when you're older you'll regret it. Please promise me that you'll wait until you're older and know what love really is. Guys your age only want one thing and that's sex. Once he gets it he'll leave trust me. If you have sex now you'll make a big mistake and regret it for the rest of your life. One other thing is that having sex for the first time hurts like hell why would you want to go through that pain right now with someone who probably doesn't love you like you think you love them.
2007-03-05 13:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Of course you can. Whether it's a good idea is a whole different question.
My advice: ask your mother to help you get on birth control. Never, EVER have sex without protection, even if you haven't had your period yet. At least use condoms!
Edit to add: There IS a small risk of getting pregnant even if you haven't had your period yet. You could be ovulating, and then get your first period later. Don't chance blowing your future on the assumption that you can't get pregnant.
2007-03-05 13:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 5⤋
if you love him, you will wait. If he loves you, he will wait. Cause if you don't and he doesn't, he can take the rest of your childhood from you. You won't be able to do the things you like to do now with a baby under your arm. Go to the mall, hang out at parties.... whatever. You have a baby now and it is diapers and poverty. If you love him and he loves you, wait.
2007-03-05 13:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by k r i s 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
technically yes. but use protection. i first had sex at 15 and i definetly think i should have waited. i loved the person at that time but then it went sour. make sure you guys really talk about it before you do it. as lame as it sounds talking really helps you guys decide why youre doing this and how you think it will make you closer. good luck.
2007-03-05 13:15:26 · answer #7 · answered by [Maria] 2 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Of course you can, but you better know about birth control...you kids really need to get a hobby.
2007-03-05 13:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by Myra G 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
my sister had sex b4 her period started and it made it start like a hour after she had sex. I dont think you should because it messed her up. Now her periods stop and come at irregular times.
2007-03-05 13:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by вrιanna 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Grow up before you have sex. You're still a baby & could get alot of problems in your life before you're ready to have sex.
2007-03-05 13:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by Rebecca V 2 · 3⤊ 4⤋