Ugh. I am having a cardiac cath today. I am only 45 and a thin vegetarian who is active. I had a virus that damaged my heart. This is very difficult for me to accept.
My husband accepted a meeting at work at the same time as my cardiac cath, four days after he said his schedule was clear and 4 days before the procedure. He sent me an email of the meeting setup and asked if I could get a ride. I did, but I was hurt. This is not the first time work has come first. Last night I found out he has 20 days of vacation time stored up. (I would have thought he would have put in for a vacation day as soon as my cath was scheduled.)
In general, he is a good man. He helps out around the house and is sweet to me, a good provider, but work comes first.
Now this morning he is watching tv before he goes to work. He is so busy at work he can't get out of a meeting, but he is watching tv before work.
Is this as bad as it feels to me?
2007-10-18
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