Singles & Dating - 23 February 2007

Hey, not sure how many ppl this problem applies to. I was wondering how i cud overcome one of my problems which really gets to me. When my and my friends go out it seems like they all have confidence to dance with, talk to and in many cases go further with girls. Now unfortunately i dont think i have been born with this part of the brain because i just feel very self concious when approaching a girl in a club or wherever even to talk to! Should i just risk everything and try to be more 'out there' or just accept that this is who i am!?

2007-02-23 01:26:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, I said here before I am still in love with my ex. We send alot of texts back and forth to each other every night. She said she still has feelings for me aswell. Its been 6 years that I am in love with her. I am only telling her now as she is getting married soon and I cant bear the thought of it plus they are going through a very bad patch and things not looking gud for them. She is coming back home tomorrow as she lives away and said she would call into me for a chat strictly she said she cant and wont do nothing with me while she is still with her fiance. This makes me want her even more as she has so much respect for other people. Help me to convince her she belongs with me. I even dumped my last gf for her (she doesnt know this) cos I cant stop thinking about her I cant move on from her. What do I say to her when I see her tomorrow. Please help I have to have her in my life again I cant lose her again. NO WAY. She is the one that I want to spend the rest of my life with

2007-02-23 01:26:05 · 6 answers · asked by Marlboro 1

its been hard finding the right one.not that i,m looking for mr.perfect but theres always something i end up not liking.beside when i do like him he,s `really taken and had lied to me about it.my heart been broken to much,so i,m just picky on guys/men.its that bad?can,t u blame me?are u with me?(any good advice anyone).

2007-02-23 01:25:18 · 6 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3

O.K Ladies Im asking because Im a man who's fed up of my career and want to meet and make new friends at work .What career do ladies pay attention to when talking to a potential boyfriend and what do they think is an exciting and attractive career for there men??

2007-02-23 01:23:39 · 15 answers · asked by Ben Macca 1

do you really like LIKE it or just like it?

2007-02-23 01:22:23 · 23 answers · asked by lowroad 2

2007-02-23 01:21:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-23 01:21:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean you are repeating them over and over again NOW!! - what would be any different?

2007-02-23 01:20:51 · 7 answers · asked by lowroad 2

2007-02-23 01:20:36 · 6 answers · asked by jhollarules 2

And why do I have 15 kids, all with different moms?

2007-02-23 01:20:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really want to show my bf that i love him but we have only been together for about a month 1/2. what are some ways (other than sex) that i can show him? guys your advice would be appreciated as well! i think it is too soon to say "i love you" even though i want to really bad.

2007-02-23 01:16:11 · 14 answers · asked by horsesareforever 3

My husband is working abroad, now tht my visa is ready im also going abroad to live with him.It will be just 2 of us in an apartment. I want to know how I can make my him go crazy for me in the bed. I want to make him want me more and more in the bed. Can anyone tell me how to.

2007-02-23 01:15:50 · 9 answers · asked by merlyn n 1

i love my boy friend very very much.he got a baby with this othe female.i havnt met the baby and he hasn't evem talk about me meeting his baby and 17 and his 20. we have been together for 2 years.is it bad that i having seen the baby.

2007-02-23 01:15:31 · 3 answers · asked by v 3

2007-02-23 01:15:16 · 14 answers · asked by Toothsharp 1

I have been in a relationship for 10 years, we are not married. He doesn't believe in marriage, I do. Problem is I love him so very much and do not want to break up, however everytime we fight he tells me I am fat, disgusting, fat pig, gross, lazy, worthless, and many other demeaning comments. I tell him it hurts me and gets us off topic from what the original fight was, I do not verbally insult him back because my conscience will not allow it, plus I don't think it helps a situation. What do I do, if in 10 years he has not stopped, nothing I do works, and I am not yet ready to break up.

2007-02-23 01:14:42 · 19 answers · asked by Italia 28 3

I like this dude and he smiles and me and stuff but im scared to say sumthin I REALLY like him theres a 2 year age gap so Im afraid he'll think Im imature so WHAT DO I DO????????

2007-02-23 01:14:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fella wants me to turn up to his place tonite wearing something sexy, women what would you wear, n men what would you want your woman to wear?

2007-02-23 01:13:29 · 2 answers · asked by scubazipo 2

HER = is one whom I like

2007-02-23 01:12:50 · 6 answers · asked by Toothsharp 1

My boyfriend broke up with me. We are both in our 30's and I thought I'd finally found the man I'd spend the rest of my life with. We didn't have a big fight or argument. It was a calm break up but my heart feels like it's been ripped in two. We decided to spend one last day together, yesterday. It was a great day! He asked me to bring my girls (I have 3) by on Saturday so he could talk with them and say good bye. It's going to be very difficult for all of us. My daughters love him. I'm not looking forward to it. Yet when he was leaving he smiled at me and told me he would talk with me before Saturday. Even after I told him that it would be too hard to keep in contact and not be together. I'm thouroughly confused! Part of our problem is communication. I don't know if he's wanting to try to make it work or if he's playing games with me. He hasn't been a game player in the past. I don't know what to think. Your opinions are appreciated! Thanks!

2007-02-23 01:06:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month and i want to kiss him but i'm not 100 percent sure.. I really want to kiss him but what will he say after i kiss him? I'm lost in love with my boyfriend so help me answer my question do i kiss him now or later???

2007-02-23 01:05:59 · 8 answers · asked by Midget 1

I met my boyfriend over a year and a half ago and we now live together and are very much in love.

At first, we "courted" for about four weeks, spending quite a lot of time together (three or four nights a week) and then he went on holiday to Spain with a friend. When he came back, I asked him to be my boyfriend officially and he agreed. Five or six months later, we were having a light-hearted chat and it came up that while he was on holiday during the first month, he had drukenly kissed somebody else in a club in Spain. He was not ashamed or apologetic in any way - he just said that's how dating goes. While he was very upfront about it we hadn't been together very long when it happened, I've felt betrayed ever since. He says he would never ever have done it had we been further into the relationship and never even looks at anybody else. However, was he wrong to kiss somebody else at that stage in our relationship? Did he do anything wrong?

2007-02-23 01:04:44 · 10 answers · asked by kevinos_1982 1

I've read a lot of questions/answers concerning a cheating partner being given another chance, and things being "better."

2007-02-23 01:04:01 · 10 answers · asked by nunya 3

if you and you boyfriend been going out for a year and he got a baby with another chick. i having not see the baby. is that bad and 17 and his 20.he still leave with his motherand i guss he dont his mothe yo see me.i don;t have my driving linces yet and he hasn't even talk about me meeting his baby.

2007-02-23 01:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by v 3

i dont know my brother said girls that put make up are ew.. but i didnt think so.. but maybe some girls do need to chill some lol i dont know anyway tell me how u think be honest! =]]

2007-02-23 01:01:45 · 13 answers · asked by hate the sand ~ love the castle 3

2007-02-23 01:01:29 · 8 answers · asked by xXxiaomeiXx 1

i still love my ex-boyfriend but i haven't talked to him in three months and i ran into him this past weekend and he wants to get back together and i'm in love with me close guy friend but he has a girlfriend... i would just date my ex but he broke up with me cauz he thought that hfe loved me friend

2007-02-23 00:59:59 · 8 answers · asked by whitt 2

2007-02-23 00:55:43 · 1 answers · asked by icecreamheadache420 2

Weve been dating over 2 months...hes been nothing but sweet, sensitive, and honest with me. He ended up moving in bc his roomate kicked him out...i didnt want him here, i said wed end up being friends, but we are trying it. He went to central america 2 weeks for his job...he came back and i saw condoms in his little see-through travel bag...i confronted him, he said they were old and he hadnt taken them out, and did not sleep with anyone...they are old once i got to looking at them...he was also very busy on the trip his friends said and didnt even go out...anyway...i started asking about his past, the question popped into my mind and i asked, "did you ever sleep with prostitutes?" he said yes in high school and college, but it was meaningless sex...he is 34 and mexican...should i be angry/ worried? Is it more acceptable there? I thought i was an open-minded person, but man. I apologized last night for the way i have been acting and he almost cried, he said lets forget.

2007-02-23 00:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will radiocarbon marriage be next?

2007-02-23 00:54:04 · 4 answers · asked by jeanie_in_a_beer_bottle 1

Her name was Tanya she had a son named zander (Who I named) This guy named David was the father but he walked out on her that's when I got with her I know the whole internet dating this is tacky but I loved her she had a cusin named angel who lived in FL i think then one day tanya started talking about jail then both her and angel just vanished I searched everywhere I'm a fool I know but I'd just like some answers

2007-02-23 00:48:24 · 3 answers · asked by timesbleed 1