i really want to show my bf that i love him but we have only been together for about a month 1/2. what are some ways (other than sex) that i can show him? guys your advice would be appreciated as well! i think it is too soon to say "i love you" even though i want to really bad.
2007-02-23 01:16:11 · 14 answers · asked by horsesareforever 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. If you really do love him, it will show in the way you act, talk behave, etc when you think of him, are with him and so on. I don't believe you should need to do anything out of the ordinairy to show your feelings for the person you are with. You go out on dates, hold hands, kiss, typical teenage things. I agree with you about not having sex with the guy. Granted, he might not agree with that last statement, hell I wouldn't either if I was a teenage guy. Only give into having sex when YOU feel you are ready. Other than that advice, read my first sentence.
2007-02-23 01:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by jon c 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you love someone you should never hold it back. If you want to say it just say it...dont hold back from your true feelings. If you really love the guy, you shouldnt feel like you have to. There are many ways to express your love for someone, and everyone has their own individuality. So noone can really tell you how to show it. You just have to be yourself and do what you naturally want to do and that should be enough. If its not then dont worry about it, there are many guys that will appreciate you. You must alwasy keep your gaurd up though! Dont fall too fast and be very naive like I was. Guys tend to take advantage of that and do things you do not deserve (ie: cheat). But, just go with the flow and see what happens! Trust your instinct and you should be just fine! Life's an adventure, live it to the fullest. If you may fall along the way, you must always pick yourself back up and try again! Good Luck!
2007-02-23 01:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him that you care about him by just doing stuff together, and taking time to be with him. Get him a little something (not too mushy, but something that he likes), and tell him that you got it just because you wanted to show him that you care about him. Emphasize the caring, because after a month and a half, you can't really know if it's love.
2007-02-23 01:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slow gal, Dont rush, if you 2 are meant to be together it will happen. Rushing things may bring a wrong impression to him. If you feel like telling him you love say it. No harm done. But dont rush into thinking about sex and all. Go slow and let time take its place. Good Luck.
2007-02-23 01:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Veronica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, boyfriends have x-ray vision ;o) I bet you, he has not been fooled by by your padded bras! He may think you are strange for wearing them - but once you feel good about it all, you can always give him the gift of cutting down on the padding. That should make him proud as en emperor ;o) But if you can't make yourself feel alright about your breasts, why not leave it him anyway? Boys gotta be good at something ;o)
2016-05-24 01:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 6 weeks I think you need to slow it down a little. If you like this guy and want him to stick around just be yourself. If you start with the I love u and that stuff this early in your relationship he is going to run..
2007-02-23 01:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To show your bf that you love him just make something form the heart. There is nothing wrong with just makeing a card or something that comes from you . he'll be happy that you loved him eaught to make something that he can always remeber you by .
2007-02-23 01:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by college_cindrellea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't tthink it's really ever to soon to say ilove you because if you realy really do love him than you should say it i've had boyfriends that we were saying we loved eachother in 2 weeks! if that's how you feel tell him it will probably make him extremley happy and boost your relationship up to a higher level.
2007-02-23 01:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To the dude that told you it's "never too soon to say I love you" --- complete bulls hit. Don't listen to that.
If you're younger than your teens, trust me, don't say I love you. He'll run away before you get to the "you".
If you're in your teens, trust me, don't say I love you. He'll run away before you get to the "you".
If you're an adult, trust me, don't say I love you. He'll run away before you get to the "you".
That is, unless you have an actual mature, loving boyfriend. But... where the hell would you find that guy? I'd like to know.
But seriously, listen to the chick that told you to wait until he tells you. Smart move.
2007-02-23 01:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ihaveaquestion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well your right it is very soon to be say "i love you" and meaning it.. wait a couple months he should really say it first! do you really know for sure that you "love" him? thats a string word to be using and you may not want to use it unless you are certain.
2007-02-23 01:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋