Hi, I said here before I am still in love with my ex. We send alot of texts back and forth to each other every night. She said she still has feelings for me aswell. Its been 6 years that I am in love with her. I am only telling her now as she is getting married soon and I cant bear the thought of it plus they are going through a very bad patch and things not looking gud for them. She is coming back home tomorrow as she lives away and said she would call into me for a chat strictly she said she cant and wont do nothing with me while she is still with her fiance. This makes me want her even more as she has so much respect for other people. Help me to convince her she belongs with me. I even dumped my last gf for her (she doesnt know this) cos I cant stop thinking about her I cant move on from her. What do I say to her when I see her tomorrow. Please help I have to have her in my life again I cant lose her again. NO WAY. She is the one that I want to spend the rest of my life with
2007-02-23 01:26:05 · 6 answers · asked by Marlboro 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you have nothing to lose by being as bold and straight as you can be. You might even try a few tears - I hate to see a man cry myself and it usually melts my heart. Tell her she is with the wrong man and she should be with you - you have to do this to be sure in your own head that there was no misunderstanding. If she still rejects you then I think you will just have to let her go.
The thing is though, she is coming to see you with the strict stipulation that it is only for a chat. This suggests to me that she still has feelings for you - or is at least curious about your feelings for her - and she really wants to hear what you have to say. On the other hand, she might just be coming to tell you that there is no hope and you should give up any idea of ever winning her back. Listen carefully to what she says. This could be your last chance so don't drink or take drugs beforehand and concentrate on what you really want.
2007-02-23 01:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have respect for her just because she won't do anything physical with you while she's still with her FIANCE? If she were that into you, he'd already be out of the picture. She's using you to cheat on her fiance, the man she's said she'll marry. I'm willing to bet she has no intention of breaking it off with him. She's already moved on, although her texts may say otherwise. Tell her that you're interested in getting back together, but won't until she's free of her fiancee.
2007-02-23 01:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What I would do is tell her how you really feel and why you that way. If you still love her than let her know. Tell her why you think her and her fiance aren't right for eachother.
2007-02-23 01:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's leading you on. she's trying to let you down easy because she knows how much you still want her. She's a girl who doesn't know how to dump. There is really nothing you can say; she has already moved on. I would suggest that you don't show up.
2007-02-23 01:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very sweet. when you see her, tell her how you feel. tell her all of you're feelings for her and how much you care about her. tell her that you need her in your life and how much you want her. girls love stuff like this. good luck on getting her back!!
2007-02-23 01:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by sasha_miller_2008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want her back then when you see her grab her close give her the biggest kiss and tell her you love her and want her back.hey it works with me
2007-02-23 01:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋