Hey, not sure how many ppl this problem applies to. I was wondering how i cud overcome one of my problems which really gets to me. When my and my friends go out it seems like they all have confidence to dance with, talk to and in many cases go further with girls. Now unfortunately i dont think i have been born with this part of the brain because i just feel very self concious when approaching a girl in a club or wherever even to talk to! Should i just risk everything and try to be more 'out there' or just accept that this is who i am!?
2007-02-23 01:26:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be yourself and dont worry.... more you go out and meet other you will gain confidence of being open to others..... so dont worry and chill out man!
enjoy life to the fullest
2007-02-23 01:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it! The worst thing a girl can tell you is NO. It happens to EVERYBODY. Just take the risk and talk to girls..there is nothing wrong with that! Just don't put yourself "out there" at least maintain a good reputation..and be confident! Come out of that shell because you'll never know how it feels to ask a girl out or even just to dance! Go for it..you'll get better in time.
Be blessed.
2007-02-23 09:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you risking? Getting embarassed? Big deal. So you ask a girl to dance with you, and she declines. Big deal. Her loss. So she turns you down. Big deal. Maybe the next one won't. You are worth talking to and deserve to find a good one, but chances are, the good ones won't just come up to you and say "hi, I know you're shy, but I'm amazing and would like to get to know you."
2007-02-23 09:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you have to lose by going for it? If you get rejected, you will never see those bimbo's again. F them. On a side note, stop going to "clubs".
2007-02-23 09:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Class 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah go talk to girls....You have to make a move to get somewhere.
2007-02-23 09:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋