Singles & Dating - 11 February 2007

Ok, so I've liked this guy at my school since the beginning of the school year. i'll call him "J" for my convenience. He actually knows who I am, and we talked together occasionally, but I didn't make it obvious that I like him because he's kind of popular, and I'm just average. But THEN, on Friday, "J"'s friend came up to me and he asked me if I liked "j". I immediately said noooo, i'm just friends with him.
well apparently, his friend knew I was lying, and practically spread to the whole school that i like "J"!!!!!!!! But the thing is, "J" actually believes my lie that I don't like him more than a friend and I feel terrible lying to him, but if I do say yes i like him, the whole school will know it's true and i HATE attention. what should I do??

2007-02-11 08:45:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this guy i really like and we both like each other a lot .....BUT i only see him friday - sunday n lately we havent been able to see each other .... n my question is .....SGOULD I BREAK UP WITH HIM?

2007-02-11 08:43:59 · 2 answers · asked by virgoqueen09_kk 1

2007-02-11 08:43:34 · 9 answers · asked by Evet 2

this is more for guys... but girls feel free to answer! Anyways... do you prefer straight or curvy (not fat, curvy) women?

2007-02-11 08:43:34 · 19 answers · asked by Drea 2

What do guys think when a girl asks out a guy when she already has a boyfriend?

2007-02-11 08:43:11 · 8 answers · asked by Grumpy chic 1

I had this dream where I was visiting my friend and she lived in Paris so I had to fly on a plane. On the way to Paris, it was a 12 hour flight, and the guy sitting next to me was a guy in my social studies class. Before the plane took off, I told him I was really scared and then he held my hand. The whole way there we played truth or dare and would you rather. While we were playing truth or dare he dared me to kiss him and I did and I acted like it was no big deal. And then in would you rather he said would you rather kiss me or the guy you used to like? And I said you. And then we got off the plane and my friend who I sorta don't like picked me up and was mad at me and drove me back to my house. She kept yelling at me and saying YOU DON'T REALLY LOVE HIM and I kept saying that I did. She was mad because I was going out with him now.Then I helped her fix a dress she had and she wasn't mad at me at all. Then I woke up. It was SOO weird.

2007-02-11 08:43:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-11 08:42:59 · 9 answers · asked by Gbaooo 1

I recently got my heart broken in a relationship and hooked up with another guy for a night, but I think he's thinking it's for a long term thing. I don't think I am ready for it. Is there a way for me to break it gently to him.

2007-02-11 08:42:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been talking to a girl, very nice and all that, but she keeps changing her mind. We were planning on seeing eachother for the first time on the weekend (we've been talking for a month or two now) and one day she says, yeah, let's try this out, i think it'll work, and then the next day she says, i don't know if this works. Why do girls keep changing their minds? I say I give her until this weekend to make up her mind, and if she can't, i'm giving up. So is there anything else that I can do? Is there anything I should do? Why does she keep changing her mind?

2007-02-11 08:42:15 · 1 answers · asked by aureliusrocker 2

Let's say there's a girl, she had lots of boyfriends, and she just want to go out and next week they broke up. You think another person can change that...that she take realationships serious or she always will be like that

2007-02-11 08:41:41 · 5 answers · asked by djmarce 2

Why do we (WOMEN) hate on each other sooooo much???
Seriously.....
I am 26 years old still trying to figure that one out. I can easily make guy friends but that just pisses females off. And I am SO not stuck on myself, in fact Im very self concious. Women seem to hate on each other for everything. Why??

2007-02-11 08:38:59 · 18 answers · asked by ? 5

2007-02-11 08:38:49 · 14 answers · asked by quiksilver23 3

well 2 months ago we broke up, and when we broke up he said we can give it another shot in the summer, and i heard here and there that he likes me, but again im hearing here and there that hes using me. Im not over him yet. he says i love you to me when ever he talks to me, there was even a time when we got into a fight he got really hurt cause i told his friend that i hated him and he txted me saying im really sorry and i love u and i shouldnt of let u go and i pretended like i didnt care that u said tha but i really did! stuff like that. what should i do?

2007-02-11 08:36:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like to bowl and I'm going to the mall and then to a roller skating rink with my friends and bf for my birthday. Is that bad?

2007-02-11 08:36:51 · 14 answers · asked by bad_kittie001 2

I've noticed her since October. I will go chronologically:
1. I let her have my seat once, she said "Really? Thank you so much!"
2. She sat in front of me, smiled, asked when my bday was
3. Came up to me on the bleachers, said she thought iw as cool, if i had a girlfriend, what my fav color is.says we're in 1 class together
4. Her and her friend enter the room, point and laugh at me, i ask em why, keep laughing (friendly laugh)
5. I think that she looks over at me sometimes
6. Hear her say "My first and last name" to her friend
7. Doesn't talk to me for 1 month
8. Asks if i was in her class (though shes in the only class ther is, and im not in it) thought that was a little weird
9. Runs in gym class really fast to catch up with me, we dont say a word
10. sits next to me that same day, multiple times, doesn't say a word (we were probably 3-4 inches apart)
11. comes up to me ad asks if she can see something in my hand, does sumthin funny, goesaw
howd strt a convosation? shy

2007-02-11 08:36:39 · 27 answers · asked by sklincky 1

2007-02-11 08:36:30 · 6 answers · asked by harleysangel06 1

but now i think he likes he likes me he is always looking at me in 1 class i still kind of like him do think he likes me

2007-02-11 08:36:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met this gurl in my gym class and she smiles at me(i smile back) and she purposely came to sit next to me when there was barely any room.

2007-02-11 08:35:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 17 years old and home schooled, i never had a girlfriend but want one. Where do i go to get one? There is a library next to me, but only little kids and senior citizens go there. There's a mall nearby but it's in a dangerous neighbourhood. I only have 1 best friend, and can't get girls through friends. Please help

2007-02-11 08:32:51 · 7 answers · asked by Alexrulz87 1

......and I mean that within reason, dont be too picky. I'm not looking for a clone of Prince William or McDreamy here

2007-02-11 08:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2

I broke up with my boyfriend. After 2 weeks I relized I still love him. I send him an email, "I want you back." He says, "No, China Rea (the person he likes) loves me and we like each other alot, I really want to kiss her and I don't like you anymore."
And the thing that really sucks is that I have to face him TOMORROW. Help!!

-*^*Kari*^*-

2007-02-11 08:31:28 · 8 answers · asked by Kari H 1

My boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago and since then we've been getting along fine as friends. I have been getting to know another guy and we've really clicked. I'm not over my ex and this new man knows that, so we've agreed to have a few dates etc and see how it goes. However, my ex (who broke up with me - it was by no means mutual) is acting very strangely now, it's almost a case of "I don't want you but I don't want anyone else to have you either". He'll tell me how much he misses me, but then act like nothing's been said. It's as if he's trying to stop me getting over him? I have tried to talk to him about it but he turns it round to make it look like I'm in the wrong, when I don't believe that I am? Has anybody been in a similar situation? Any advice would be much appreciated, he's being very complicated and I'm quite confused!

2007-02-11 08:31:12 · 14 answers · asked by mishmash 3

assuming they have all of the other qualities that make a great man...btw, im 5'9, 160 lbs and can bench 235, a sweet lover

2007-02-11 08:30:15 · 10 answers · asked by Austin Powers 2

this guy really likes me he says i am the type he would take home to his mom he even has songs in his ipod undera folder with my name on it that remind him of me...but i dont like him he is nice..but not muh type

2007-02-11 08:29:46 · 10 answers · asked by virgoqueen09_kk 1

I'm into this guy at work, and I know theres a mutual attraction. Problem? I'm 16 and hes 20. should I go for it or no?

2007-02-11 08:29:36 · 11 answers · asked by sammy 1

There is this guy that i REALLY like but iam not sure if he likes me... how can i get him to like me just as I like him?

2007-02-11 08:29:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is a boy chuc and chantel i really likes chuc for a while now i dont like him but my best freind chantel is 13 and she is not aloud to go out with anyone untill she i 16 now she is tryin to be evil to me and chuc asked chantel out but he only did this because chantel said she would give him a kiss and not going out or nothing so chuc asked chantel out and she said yes and then after they walked into the cinima holding hands and kissing now chanel is saing things to get me agravate me to get me out of the picture because chuc and me youzed to be good freinds and would talk all the time on the phone and chuc really liked me now he dos not seem entrested because she has told them aloud of bul **** about me thats not true that i have screamed and so on and so forth so i need to get chuc and chantel jealous

2007-02-11 08:28:53 · 1 answers · asked by Browneyed-girlx 2

So I have been dating this guy for about a month. Im head over heels for him, and he seemed the same. The other day, I started to get this feeling like something is wrong. I didnt say anything at 1st because I worry a lot anyways. So Friday night I asked him if everything was ok. He said yes but had mentioned 2x before, and then again when I had asked, that we dont have anything to talk about ever. I was with my friend so I told him I would call him when I got home. I waited a while, and decided I didnt want to think about it, so I text him. We ended up talking thru text for a while, and I came to the conclusion that mwe would take a break for a few days and see where we stand. I don't want to lose him. I wanted to text him last night and tell him I miss him, but I scared. When I told him we should take a break for a few days, he said "is that what you think we should do?" I said I have NO idea what to do but that I dont want to break up. Any advice?? Idk what to say next time we talk

2007-02-11 08:28:40 · 2 answers · asked by annie 6

indiana is so boring

2007-02-11 08:27:41 · 19 answers · asked by mindi 4

I am a virgin and my fiance is not. I have no idea what to do on our wedding night but everyone keeps on saying to just lye back and let him show me. I want to know how to make things special for him, I am incredibly nervous, but what can I do to make it exciting/pleasurable/special for him as well, not just for me. please give me some advice. He is being so wonderful by understanding my standards, I want to give him something in return, and since we will be married, I can! Thanks!

2007-02-11 08:27:40 · 8 answers · asked by Carli K 1