I'm into this guy at work, and I know theres a mutual attraction. Problem? I'm 16 and hes 20. should I go for it or no?
2007-02-11 08:29:36 · 11 answers · asked by sammy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First you should ask you mom and dad! What’s this guy have going for him? any kids? Lives on his own? Dose he have a car? I could go on here forever.
In 2 years I would tell you to go for it your 18 and he's 22 that’s fine, before right now you could be friends that see each other at work, he is so far ahead of you in life right now, your setting your self up to be hurt and at this age I don't it something your going to be ready for, it a long fall down from something like this, just be friends he can teach you thing about life but for now just friends. That's what I think.
Good luck, take it slow you your whole life ahead of you to found your true love.
Jon
2007-02-11 08:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to consider if you are of the age of consent. Legally he could be too old for you and you could end up having him charged with sexual offenses on a minor. So that right there tells you that he is too old for you. Also the expectations of a 20 year old are very different from those of a 16 year old simply because of his four plus years of experience. Be smart, stay away from him.
2007-02-11 08:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, let him go. Im sure if you went for it, he would probly share the felling but that is doing him wrong. He could get into a lot of trouble for doing it, and if a young beautiful girl tempts an older man it hard to say no. If you truly care about him, You will do whats best for him and just be friends.
2007-02-11 08:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by azº 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're the type that wants to get him caught in rape cases then yes. How would your parents feel about him....are your parents open-minded individuals ( meaining: does the age gap bother them ). If they're not the type then hopefully it just stays at mutual attractions, if not then you better not tell nobody.
2007-02-11 08:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by 00silky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should date someone in your school age not outside high school. Come on, be smart. I don't think your parents won't let you to go out with him anyway. Also it is waste your time to go out with him and it is call jailbait if he deserve end up at the county Jail of being going out with. Can you find someone who is 16+ in school?
You knew better.
2007-02-11 08:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by Haryo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he will end up in jail if you become involved. He is hopefully smart enough to know you are jail bait and will ignore any attempts you make to get him interrested. If you like him you will leave him alone.
2007-02-11 08:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by Country girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You are too young for him right now. You don't have as much in common with him as you think you do.
2007-02-11 08:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by stacia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say don't go for a guy 5 years older than you. That's just my opnion. Younger than that, go for it.
2007-02-11 08:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by Vshak 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would say go for it. there are people out there with a larger age gap than you two have. no problem there. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-11 08:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO YOU SHOULNDT
because if you work with him and ask him out.
Big problem thats not good.
and thats way to old
2007-02-11 08:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋