Any advice, girls???

Question

So I have been dating this guy for about a month. Im head over heels for him, and he seemed the same. The other day, I started to get this feeling like something is wrong. I didnt say anything at 1st because I worry a lot anyways. So Friday night I asked him if everything was ok. He said yes but had mentioned 2x before, and then again when I had asked, that we dont have anything to talk about ever. I was with my friend so I told him I would call him when I got home. I waited a while, and decided I didnt want to think about it, so I text him. We ended up talking thru text for a while, and I came to the conclusion that mwe would take a break for a few days and see where we stand. I don't want to lose him. I wanted to text him last night and tell him I miss him, but I scared. When I told him we should take a break for a few days, he said "is that what you think we should do?" I said I have NO idea what to do but that I dont want to break up. Any advice?? Idk what to say next time we talk

Answer 1

Yo, hey you know me, Im the blonde chick your goin to marry haha. just kidding. You should just text him, and ask him how he is doing. Start a simple conversation, then ask him if he's thought about you two anymore, or thought about anything since you guys have been on a break. Just make it short, dont make it a really long four page text messgae. If he says he hasnt really thought about it or just flat out says no i havent thought about it, maybe you guys really werent to meant to be, but trust me, give it a day or two then ask him, or start a simple convo then ask him, dont interogate him, but dont let anything stand in your way either.

Answer 2

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