well 2 months ago we broke up, and when we broke up he said we can give it another shot in the summer, and i heard here and there that he likes me, but again im hearing here and there that hes using me. Im not over him yet. he says i love you to me when ever he talks to me, there was even a time when we got into a fight he got really hurt cause i told his friend that i hated him and he txted me saying im really sorry and i love u and i shouldnt of let u go and i pretended like i didnt care that u said tha but i really did! stuff like that. what should i do?
2007-02-11 08:36:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over it. Are you really that pathetic? This guy just is looking for sex.
2007-02-11 08:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by Tumbling Dice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you he was willing to give it another shot then chances are he still likes you, otherwise he would not have said that, but if he's ignoring you now and not talking to you, or calling, I would forget him. He has probably changed his mind and is no longer interested. If I were you, I would not admit that I had cared when he texted and all that, if it came up again, I would explain that I was mad at that time and I would tell him that I do care now. If you love him, tell him so.
2007-02-11 08:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should tell him "whatever" when he says he loves u and that will make him REALLY sad IF he luvs u. OR tell him that u r over him and that HE was the 1 that broke up with u and u can't be together with him anymor becuz u hava deep luv for some1 else or somethin it will make him SOOOO jealous (if he still luvs u). It workd 4 me cuz he came runnin back like a stray dog and now he's my honest, loving husband
2007-02-11 08:45:18 · answer #3 · answered by Packer Fan 101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time with games sweetie.
Go up to him, ask him straight out, "Where is this relationship going?" If he says he'd like to try to make things work, use your instincts. If he says he's not sure, let him go. You don't need his immature games. If he says, "nowhere", well, that's pretty obvious.
Personally, if it doesn't work out the first time, it would be a miracle if you made it work a second time. A man that can't stick with a decision isn't something you need.
2007-02-11 08:44:42 · answer #4 · answered by hopek2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in my situation, my ex and I talked about what happened to us, fixed things b/t us but we are not together, YET. I still have things to do first. My ex came right out and told me he wanted us to get back together.
As for hearing rumors from other people, shut that bull **** out of your mind. Never believe what you hear and only believe half of what you see.
Honey, come right out and ask him. Ask him if you two are going to get back together or not? If not, you are going to move on with your life and you two can still be friends, but that's it.
Come on now, use a little common sense.
2007-02-11 08:44:30 · answer #5 · answered by passionate_play270 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go on living your life if he comes back then you have something to thank about, don't set home waiting to see if this guy likes you again go out and meet others.
If and when it happens then act on it, life it to short to play games.
Good luck and get out and live ;-0)
2007-02-11 08:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live your life if he is meant to come back he will
2007-02-11 08:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by cherry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop playing games and get back together sweetie!!
2007-02-11 08:46:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't have sex with him and see how long he sticks around.
2007-02-11 08:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by Kendra H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋