this guy really likes me he says i am the type he would take home to his mom he even has songs in his ipod undera folder with my name on it that remind him of me...but i dont like him he is nice..but not muh type
2007-02-11 08:29:46 · 10 answers · asked by virgoqueen09_kk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey the only thing to do is to be honest. Don't do it in a mean way. Just let him know that he is one of your best friends but you just don't think of him that way. I know it sounds lame but you have to be honest. Good Luck!
2007-02-11 08:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) r u dating him?
2) if u r then say "I'm sorry but ur creeping me out and moving too fast"
3) if ur not then tell him loudly so he knows "I am so glad that we're JUST friends!"
4) if u don't like either of those choices then say "I am moving to Europe in 3 weeks!" Then tell him that u have 2 pack and stuff and cut him off from ur life completely if he SERIOUSLY freaks u out! If he doesn't then just kindly explain that u don't love him that way. . . .
2007-02-11 16:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Packer Fan 101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth in a positive way. Tell him that you think he is a great guy, but that feelings of love and attachment are not something that can be controlled and you do not have these feelings for him. Then, leave him alone.
2007-02-11 16:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by astralpen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have had the same problem before. What i did was tell him that our relationship wasn't working out anymore so lets just be friends. and he really needed some time to get over me but i felt that if we were still together and didn't have feelings for each other then that would hurt his feelings even more.
2007-02-11 16:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by Diani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rule numer one: make sure you end it IN PERSON!! if u do it on the internet, over the phone, etc., he can't see ur reaction and seriousness of the situation. just tell him that u think that he would be much happier with sumone else. (if u can, suggest sumone that maybe u kno is interested in him!) just make sure u are nice ( not snotty) and if u offer to be just friends with him, he will appreciate it and maybe not take it so hard.
Hope it helps and good luck!!
2007-02-11 16:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by sparkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit him down and come out with it. Don't do that over the phone or computer crap. Just say that really had so much fun with him, and that he's been a great boyfriend. Then just say, but i really don't like you anymore. and just tell him the truth.. He'll eventually move on.
2007-02-11 16:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him but ur not in love with him. Also say that you feel he is more like a brother to you than a boyfriend. Hopefully he takes it good.
*Good Luck*
2007-02-11 16:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by Barbiex3 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel slowly LOL becasue i mean he likes you alot.
Or pass a note to him mail a letter or text message that yall are over becasue you dont like him.
Its better then having to tell him in his face.
2007-02-11 16:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best thing to do is to tell him the truth. and its not worth wasting your time with someone that you truly are not happy with. i know its hard to break up with someone but you just need to be honest and you will feel releaved once its done.
2007-02-11 16:59:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk more
2007-02-11 16:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by NIKKI☮ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋