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I've noticed her since October. I will go chronologically:
1. I let her have my seat once, she said "Really? Thank you so much!"
2. She sat in front of me, smiled, asked when my bday was
3. Came up to me on the bleachers, said she thought iw as cool, if i had a girlfriend, what my fav color is.says we're in 1 class together
4. Her and her friend enter the room, point and laugh at me, i ask em why, keep laughing (friendly laugh)
5. I think that she looks over at me sometimes
6. Hear her say "My first and last name" to her friend
7. Doesn't talk to me for 1 month
8. Asks if i was in her class (though shes in the only class ther is, and im not in it) thought that was a little weird
9. Runs in gym class really fast to catch up with me, we dont say a word
10. sits next to me that same day, multiple times, doesn't say a word (we were probably 3-4 inches apart)
11. comes up to me ad asks if she can see something in my hand, does sumthin funny, goesaw
howd strt a convosation? shy

2007-02-11 08:36:39 · 27 answers · asked by sklincky 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

27 answers

Jeez dude! Do you need her to punch you in the face before you ask her out?

Don't be such a wimp! Go for it. The worst thing that will happen? Act like a man!

2007-02-11 08:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by Tumbling Dice 5 · 1 0

this girl is crazy about you. Probably spends a lot of time thinking about what it would be like with you. She is shy, I understand that you are shy, but as the guy you got to step up to the plate and take the pressure. Risk and reward, no risk no reward

If you wait too long the window might close, she might think that you have no interest in her as a girlfriend and move on to another guy.

Ask her questions about what she is doing, what she likes, ask her questions, start asking her to do some of the things that you do with you. Don't have to jump right to a date. Spend time doing things together or in a group of friends, spending time together and talking with each other is most important.

2007-02-11 16:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by onlinedreamer 3 · 1 0

She is so into you that you should show some nerve and show something back.....girls flirt this way, its just how we are. We natural assume that how pretty we are or how much we attract someone will lead that guy to us, you guys have a rough life, I admit. You have to deal with other guys, peer pressure, the stress of approaching us.

Believe me, though, by what you described, she is trying to make it easier for you to approach her. Just talk with her, and if you can't remember anything to say, just ask her a question about herself or family or why her favorite subject is.....It sounds like she is really into you for who you are, so the better you are at accepting yourself, the easier it will be to get to know who she is.

By the way, you sound like a nice young man and I'm jealous that this girl is flirting with you instead of me :-)

Did I raise your confidence enough to talk with her?? Just be yourself and talk about things that interest you, ask her questions about what she likes, and then feel free to discuss or agree on things after that, that is what relationships are, knowing another person and then accepting them.

I really do hope the best out of this situation and she sounds like a sweetheart of a girl. Good luck :-)

2007-02-11 16:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by kaliroadrager 5 · 1 0

She likes you.

The best way to start ( and hold ) a conversation if you're a guy is to ask questions.

Ask questions.

Ask questions.

Ask more questions.

Then ask more questions.

Women like talking, so ask questions.

Then more questions.

So, you get the point. But really - write down a list of questions at home ( don't let her see it ) and askkkk queeestions.

Plus, it takes a lot of pressure off of you.

Good luck.

2007-02-11 16:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by that_guy 2 · 1 0

I guess, she is sending you enough signals to let you know she is interested in you, so do something to let her know you are interested too--invite her to the movies, or to a game, to a party, or whatever activity will make both of you comfortable together; what you have to loose but pride? What you can gain? Friendship and maybe love is worth the effort, isn't it? Good luck!

2007-02-11 16:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I'd say she probably likes you. Start a conversation with just talking about simple things like school or her favorite color. Ask her about herself and make her feel special.

2007-02-11 16:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by prttynpnk 2 · 0 0

She definitely likes you and is not comfortable (yet) actually approaching you and really initiating the friendship!!! Try to catch her when nobody is around and say something friendly that could lead to more conversation. She likes you!!!

2007-02-11 16:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by fried_twinkie1 7 · 0 0

From this information, it sounds like she likes you (platonically), MIGHT have a little crush, and MIGHT be borderline retarded - I cannot even venture an opinion with this limited information. But she may not be retarded assuming she is at the same level as you - which I assume is very early middle school from your spelling.

2007-02-11 16:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0 0

Yes she really likes you, but is trying to be aloof after thinking maybe she came on to strong, flirting, because you havnt asked her out yet!xx

2007-02-11 16:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by Londonbaby 3 · 0 0

yes she does!!! just ask her a question about the class you have together like homework or something to start talking to her. talking to her would make her valentines day perfect!

2007-02-11 16:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by flutterflie04 5 · 0 0

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