Singles & Dating - 8 February 2007

my current bf hates my ex so much because of the way he treated me when we were dating. we get along as friends, and he calls me once in awhile at night when i get home from work. my bf is usually working this time of night, but last night he came home while i was talking to my ex. i hung up on my ex, so then he calls back. my bf answers the phone, but hears nothing.
i don't want to not talk to my ex, we are still friends, and have been friends for a very long time, but my ex hates him, and if he found out that i was talking to him, he would be very mad.
should i feel bad for talking to my ex once in a while, should i tell my bf that i've talked to him, or should i stop talking to him?

2007-02-08 09:23:41 · 12 answers · asked by Jamie Lynn 3

1: I posted a question about what kind of story I could write in the Singles and Dating section...and somebody reported it! I mean, come on! I was just seeing what kind of books they were into! In your opinion, was that fair?

2: Okay...now for another try...what should I write about? I write a lot of historical fiction novels...and I am into "trashy teen novels". Could you give me some ideas of what you would be interested in?

2007-02-08 09:22:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would they be...?? details please

2007-02-08 09:22:28 · 26 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6

the problem is im always jealous to my girl friend.some times i even cant understand myself why.its really too much.i always feel jealous on her and we end in quareling.what can i do to stop is unnecessary jealous.or is there something wrong with me

2007-02-08 09:21:23 · 6 answers · asked by icecold 2

valentine's day?he likes to hunt and stuff if that helps.

2007-02-08 09:19:13 · 7 answers · asked by Emo_Gurl™ 2

This is going to be long but to get the best answers i need to give most of the details.
There was this married couple that are my friends but little over a year ago they split up and are almost done with their divorce. The guy is already involved with someone else but the girl is not. I my self am out of a 5 year relations ship too and recently I've been seeing this girl more often. I always thought she was very attractive and nice person and she felt like that too about me as well but we never took it pass that since we both were happy at our relationships at the time.
We've gone out to movies and dinners few times, she invites me to her home all the time and gives me warm hugs, kiss on the cheek and all the good body language signs like playing with her hair, looking away , sitting really close to me on a big couch etc, etc...I see all this things so one evening I just went for it and kissed her....I think she was little surprised by that but did not fought me off so i figured it was fine. After that we went out few more times and kissed few more times but I think it was me who initiated all the time. Than few days later as we were going out I wanted to give her hello kiss and this is when she told me she is not ready for relationship right now.....I know she is going through thought time with the divorce right now so I automatically said that neither am I ( I guess I was defending my own ego from being rejected?) all of this has been few months ago
since than we still talk and hang out occasionally whenever I can but I do stay out of town a lot due to my job so its not easy. She still gives me all the body language and stuff, I even try not to return the kiss on the cheek when she gives me a hug but she doesn't notice that I'm trying to back away ....after all she said she wsnt ready so I took few steps back.
Just last weekend she invited met to her house and we were supposed to watch some movies, but it turn out that her brother had people coming over to watch boxing which we did instead movies. While there she was talking with her friends that I hardly know I was sitting there all by my self like a sore thumb....I felt stupid and out of place...after the fight everyone left and so did I even I had a feeling she did not want me to go....was it a right move?
I dont know what to do....I know I like her and she likes me too but something tells me she is not going to be ready for longtime and I dont want to be playing this childish game, we are both adults she is 27 im 29
feb 14 is coming up and I have two choices
either keep going after her and send her a card ----I need suggestions on what to say

or I could talk to her and tell her that it would be best if we dont see eachoter for a while because it keeps messing with my and her head and i find it hard to be just her friend and deny myself the feelings I have towards her....
by doing this I hope it would help her realize how she truly feels and i'm prepared for what ever the outcome might be....either way the choice is going to be clear and simple

some of you might tell me that we bot are on a rebound and that divorce are tough on a person.....I'm very well aware of it so no need to tell me that
I just need advice on what to do how to do it and what to say

2007-02-08 09:17:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was kinda in a crabby mood today and kinda let it out on one of my classmates...now she's pissed off at me, even though i apologized to her. How long do u think it will take for her to forget bout it? Plus I dont really think her n i have much in common...shes the serious type and i'm goofy.
Should I continue being her aquaintance friend or ditch her and switch to a table away from her?

2007-02-08 09:16:49 · 1 answers · asked by dnice 1

Ok I like 4 guys i need your help to help me chose which guy
Brandon: my ex-boyfriend who I brokeup with! he's really sweet, funny,hot and one of my really good friends.
Nick-MY BEST FRIEND I've known nick since kindergarten and were best friends. he's funny crazy in a good way he acts like Steve-O from jackass because he does stupid stuff like that.
Scott-i went out with him last year twice BUT we went out on and off our longest relationship lasted 2 weeks because we'd cheat on eachother but i like him alot
Kiko- he's so hot and he's my buddy BUT he's my bestfriends EX-boyfriend but he's so nice and funny and we hangout all the time with our friends.
i need help i like all 4 of these guys and there all super HOTT!!!

2007-02-08 09:16:20 · 5 answers · asked by Kenzie+Camden=♥ 4

please help cuz today a girl broke my heart and played with my emotion and i dont know what to do so please help me

2007-02-08 09:15:49 · 9 answers · asked by bigmatrixmaster 3

i heard at strip clubs the stripper rubs her naked self all over the guys body isn't that cheating?

how could guys think that's not cheating?!?! when your with someone you can only have physical contact sexually with that person (for all you guys who don't think it's cheating i'd like to see a male stripper rub his dick & hot body all over your gf) and how could they do it if their about to get married or are in a relationship ?cause that is cheating!

i'm pretty sure all guys do this so i was wrong when i said only MOST guys cheat right guys? now i found out ALL guys cheat!

and for all you girls who think your bf is diffrent that's only acting

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i'm thinking of only going for gay guys would they still like a girl even if they're not attracted to them

2007-02-08 09:15:20 · 22 answers · asked by mamama 2

my boyfriend asked me out about a month ago... but now he ignores me all the time. i tell him that he does, but he doesen't belive me. how can i make him pay more attention to me.

2007-02-08 09:14:02 · 24 answers · asked by Dopie 1

guys are the only ones who can answer this...

2007-02-08 09:13:59 · 11 answers · asked by Cayden 1

Faith asked this question for hte opposite sex, so i'm asking it for guys. What personalities, physical features, attributes, attitudes, habits, etc. do girls find simply irresistable?

2007-02-08 09:13:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are in a "relationship", we casually dated for a few months and have only been "in a rleationship" for a few weeks. I have not "put our" in any way. I want something real but how do you know if he is into you or if he just wants sex. We go out but not as much as most cause of his work sechedule and the fact that im a single mom. Is he here becaues of me or somthing else......and how do i get him to fall for me or know if he has?

2007-02-08 09:13:22 · 6 answers · asked by someone101 1

2007-02-08 09:13:13 · 3 answers · asked by anubhav_55 3

DON'T give up your virginity until you're older.

I know from expirience, its a bad choice. I'm 15, and my ex boyfriend dumped me sunday night. We were together for 5 months, and serious. He bought be an expensive promise ring, we talked about moving in, and our future together, and i really felt like he was the one. I made the mistake of having sex with him, and giving him my virginity. I thought he was the one i was going to be with forever! You can't blame me, he put on a good act. Sunday night, he dumped me and told me that he "stopped loving me", those feelings just "started to fade." Imagine how used i feel? You might say, "my boyfriend is different, he really is sincere." Yeah. Thats what i thought about him. Damn, i thought he was more perfect than you could ever think your boyfriend is. But the truth is..no one knows what they want forever at this age. People grow, people change, and now i see why adults always say save it until you're older, but now i wish i had listened.

2007-02-08 09:11:44 · 16 answers · asked by Lovely 1

Im a 20 year old girl and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. Im a real good kid as far as my parent know and have never really done anything to disrespect their home till now. My parents were meant to go away for a night so i invited my BF over and we were messing around a bit. Then after that i walked out of my room naked cos "i was home alone" and i walked into my dad. He just carried on walking and ignored me for a bit. Then after wards i found out they had a fight and came home and he then called me outside and kinda asked what was goin on and told me if i was sexually active i must use protection. I said i was not having sex. I just said we were changin to go for a swim which is the truth i just left out the stuff in between and he got up and walked out and has not said a thing about it since but i can see he is either angry or diappointed. My mom says he is mad at me and im just scared he will hate my Boyfriend now and things wont ever be the same?? Please help...

2007-02-08 09:10:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

-i cant eat or sleep
-i see him talking to other girls
-hes done this to me before and we ended up back together
-hes trying to get with someone else....
-now i feel like my whole life is going down the drain
-do i give up?

2007-02-08 09:10:31 · 6 answers · asked by [[elizabeth]] 1

2007-02-08 09:09:22 · 13 answers · asked by justme123 1

i have this girl who has a boyfriend but always comes and talks to me and she even gave me her number without me asking...does it mean she wants me?

2007-02-08 09:08:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok this guy I like, likes me to. that is all good and fine when i first start talking to him with a gf he was about to break up with him. So it has been 3 months and he has made gestures that he likes for 3 months. now he asked for my # on2/8/07. He has wrote me lots of notes about us going out and when his friends my friends tell us to go out but he dont want a girlfriend. Now he tells my best friend he is about to ask me out but he never does. Could it be from his former relationship? All my guy friends? OR he dont want to hurt me like he did his ex to talk to me? (his ex didnt relly want him)!!! Guys plz give advice!!!

2007-02-08 09:08:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-08 09:08:22 · 3 answers · asked by anubhav_55 3

details

2007-02-08 09:08:15 · 7 answers · asked by nick e 1

what would you think if your boyfriend of 4 months, took you to a billboard, and climb it with you and sat there and watch cars go by under the moon, and saying sweet compliments! what would you think!!

if not a good idea, give a great idea then

2007-02-08 09:08:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-08 09:08:05 · 14 answers · asked by down2earth 2

He got angry cos after we had se x I didn't tell him how good it was - and that I never do. Which isn't true sometimes I do tell him how GREAT it was.
He told me that normal people tell each other how good it was. That in a normal relationship it isn't a problem.
What I don't understand is if I get off and he knows I do why everytime after do i need to tell him how good it was?
I also don't appreciate the whole "normal people do this" as everyone is different.
Has anyone else had this problem as I don't really understand where he is coming from? Im totally confused???

2007-02-08 09:07:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do u really think, do they look good? any1 got em? wot r they like?

2007-02-08 09:07:13 · 26 answers · asked by xhelenx 2

We live together - he gives me flowers, etc etc. I get home before he does from work - whats something I can do to show him I care? Just a nice token of affection?

(this is not a dirty question)

2007-02-08 09:07:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

O......... say i have this friend lets call her Cheleena ... cheleena has a bf ...his name is Jt ... me and Jt were at a party and we got really close... we ended up goin in his friends bedroom... all we did was kiss.. make out... but then one of my bfs friends walks in lets call him Josh ... Josh knos me very well ... he also knos my bf lets call him Jake...Jake and Jt have been friends for a long time ... should i just tell him what happend ... but see i love him soo much

2007-02-08 09:06:55 · 5 answers · asked by emily v 1

my song to go in my concert.......

true love you broke my hesrt you made my whole life sole,
true love you broke my heart you made my whole life crol'
you said that you woud be my baby and y did you betray me,
using me to get what you want.
then i couldn't believe it happened....o no..no..no
you took my heart and rip it apart..
leaving me with a broken heart..
you went away with a nother girl,
leaving me along with a broken heart,
i sole and cried with no one there for me,
cuz u were no where to b founded,
for you where away with some1 else,
oh baby come back...to me......
o... yea...o....yea....
cuz i could never live without you........

2007-02-08 09:06:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous