i heard at strip clubs the stripper rubs her naked self all over the guys body isn't that cheating?
how could guys think that's not cheating?!?! when your with someone you can only have physical contact sexually with that person (for all you guys who don't think it's cheating i'd like to see a male stripper rub his dick & hot body all over your gf) and how could they do it if their about to get married or are in a relationship ?cause that is cheating!
i'm pretty sure all guys do this so i was wrong when i said only MOST guys cheat right guys? now i found out ALL guys cheat!
and for all you girls who think your bf is diffrent that's only acting
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i'm thinking of only going for gay guys would they still like a girl even if they're not attracted to them
2007-02-08 09:15:20 · 22 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it's cheating. I've always been against watching strippers...especially if you're in a relationship. If someone would rather watch a stripper than their significant other then they're showing no respect at all and need to end the relationship.
2007-02-08 09:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by coldasyou213 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the strip club. Sometimes the dancers are up on stage, and there is no touching permitted at all.
Sometimes they just do a sexy dance and remove some clothes... sometimes they go topless... sometimes they take it all off. Usually when a stripper does a "lap dance", she still has some clothes on - not much, but she's not totally naked. And sometimes in a lap dance she'll just get very close to him, and other times she may actually touch him or rub against him. It depends on the club and the amount of money the man is willing to pay.
Not ALL guys attend strip clubs, even when they are single, and most guys aren't cheaters by any definition. Some women think any lustful thought on his part is cheating; other women are fine with the "look but don't touch" rule; some women feel that emotional fidelity is more important than physical fidelity (ie, if his cheating is "just sex" and his love remains hers).
So don't freak out and blame all men for your boyfriend's actions. Tell him, honestly and calmly, that you consider his attendance at strip clubs to be cheating, and that if he wants to see a woman take off her clothes and seduce him, YOU are the only woman he should be asking.
2007-02-08 17:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. Strip clubs involve fantasies, and that's why people go. In good clubs, you can find just about anything - within reason - that you're looking for (any type of girl). It's also true that all the clubs I've ever been to have a strict no-touching policy; as in the recipient of a dance must keep both hands on the seat/bar, while the dancer may initiate physical contact at his/her own discretion.
If you really have a problem with your boyfriend going out to strip clubs, Valentine's Day is coming up. It might be a suitable chance for you to give him a private strip show of your own at home and then see if he ever pays for it anywhere else again!
2007-02-08 17:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you consider cheating. Basically, you are the only one who can answer this questions. If you define cheating as your b/f seeing another girl naked, then he has cheated if he has been to a strip club (or even watched American Pie for that matter!) My suggestion, talk w/ your b/f and lay down what you both think is and isn't cheating. Then there is no question later on if his buddies want to go to a strip club, he'll know that it will be cheating.
2007-02-08 17:24:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating.... I don't know. When I was younger (under 21) it would really upset the hell out of me when my boyfriend went to a strip club. Now that I'm a little older (26) I can put it in perspective. It's all in good fun most of the time. Now when he goes to a strip club (luckily only for bachelor party's) I go out with my girls and dance with a hottie.
2007-02-08 17:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by sbants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that every guy goes to strip clubs and has naked women rubbing up against them, then you're going out with the wrong guys. There are plenty of guys who wouldn't be caught dead in a strip club...
2007-02-08 17:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by Dirty R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like the illusion that a stripper has. It's fantasy. And not all guys go to strip clubs. Mine hasnt been in one since we started dating almost 7 years ago!!
2007-02-08 17:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by Leo_Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off why wpuld you let him go to a strip club. What u need to watch is that episode of teh Tyra Banks Show. There was an episode about what really happens at strip clubs. And most guys when a girl does that go to the bathroom and put a condom on because all the girl does is grind up on him. Any girlfriend that has a boyfriend would know better than to let your bf go to a strip club. So maybe you shoulda thought.
2007-02-08 17:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Oh my ... okay honey ... a man going to the strip club is not cheating. a stripper giving a lap dance ... eh ... not cheating. as long as there is no skin on skin - literally meaning that he is fully clothed when receiving said lap dance - i dont think theres anything wrong with it. now if shes rubbin her puss all on him, thats just nasty and id dump my man if he came home smellin like stripper puss ... but thats a whole different story. i would think that as long as my man keeps his hands in his pockets or on his beer and the stripper isn't getting "penetrated" in any way what so ever by said man ... that its' all good. hell, i may wanna get my stripper club on and get a dick rubbed all on me ... so i gotta give him his free pass too ... long as he keeps his jimmy in his pants and doesn't purposely grope or touch or taste or lick or any of that mess ... so i guess it just depends on the kind of girl you are ... i like to watch my man get aroused by strippers ... cuz then i get to do it to him afterwards and i dont have to even get him goin ... he's already ready:)
2007-02-08 17:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a former male stripper, and I'll be the first one to tell you that when a woman is "dancing" for you, the men are not allowed to make ANY physical contac...as a matter of fact, most seats set up for a man to receive a lap dance, have a handrail, and you must hold onto it, if you even let go, that dance is terminated.
HOWEVER, when we males dance, there are also "supposed to be" rules, but the women NEVER obey them!!! Someone needs to stark kicking their @sses out of the clubs too!!!
NO...it IS NOT cheating!!!
I guess if your husband is getting his lap dance with his wonker hanging out, then I might say it's cheating. And if that's the case, let me know the name of the club....I'll go there myself!!!
2007-02-08 17:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by Master Richard 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋