A year ago, my boyfriend injured his back, & it required surgery that required year + of recovery. He began hanging out with old friends & I began to suspect cocaine use. He began to constantly have a stuffy nose/cold, he has lost considerable weight, and his personality was different. It was true, & I pitched a fit, and told him to stop hanging out with his friends, and to stop using it. Today, he still has the runny nose and he is unwilling to stop hanging out with them, except he doesn’t hang out when I’m home. Thursday, he began to claim there were bugs in his hair. I want him out, but I’m his only income. I helped him apply for disability, and it will likely be approve this month. He continues to deny chronic drug use, but promises it’s only once a week or so. I am embarrassed to talk to my friends, and I would appreciate your help. Should I throw him out of our house? Or, should I wait a month for his disability to begin? Finally, Do you think I should call his family?
2007-02-03
12:29:49
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