Singles & Dating - 22 January 2007

Hello all. Im seeing this great lady. She is wonderful and we get on great together. When we kiss it is awesome. I asked her to spend the night with me - to sleep with me. Initially she seemed keen but then told me that she wants to wait - possibly until marriage. I have no problem waiting but im wondering if there is an interim step. I woud love to spend the night with her holding her, caressing her, kissing her, pleasuring her orally - no pressure for sex. Should i suggest this or are there other things we can do to be closer but not have sex. Advice appreciated.

2007-01-22 21:32:04 · 20 answers · asked by Pa J 1

2007-01-22 21:30:46 · 7 answers · asked by ahchongwin 1

i think that iam not handsome i love agirl but iam not sure it love me or not and she know many boys

2007-01-22 21:28:57 · 6 answers · asked by miro_strong2007 1

Is it, or is it not true that most, if not all, guys like girls with gorgeous figures, flat stomachs, and beautiful faces? Cus Im sure it is. CUs my stomach isnt flat,and I dont have the most perfect figure ever, and im not drop-dead gorge, and I have never been asked out, or had anyone like me, or anything like that! But girls who ar eperfect get guys after them all the time...its really downputting! So is it true?

2007-01-22 21:27:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it okay to ask a pregnant woman for a date, and maybe more...?

2007-01-22 21:27:02 · 16 answers · asked by Louy 5

I am in love with two people at present, One is an ex boyfreind - who abandoned me, after i told him that i was abused as a child, He didnt keep in touch at all, infact 5 bithdays he never even wished me, I was however in touch with his best friend, who is now a good friend of mine, I was mainly in touch with his best friend cause it was my link to my ex...

aNYHOW i am suppose to get engaged in 2 weeks from now (formally) - Informlly - Ive put the ring on hold, tough the guy has asked me twice... and i said yes, but no rings till the formal one..

my present guy - He' s a very nice guy - Um, i actually fell in love with him months after knowing him, he tends to put my needs first, and he's everything i would want a man to be, He's never ever let me down - and once he even held my hand the whole night after i told him i was scared about what was going to happen, he sat and held my hand tellin me to relax

My question - who do i choose, and how? do i tell my fiance abt my ex?

2007-01-22 21:25:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it, or is it not true that most, if not all, guys like girls with gorgeous figures, flat stomachs, and beautiful faces? Cus Im sure it is. CUs my stomach isnt flat,and I dont have the most perfect figure ever, and im not drop-dead gorge, and I have never been asked out, or had anyone like me, or anything like that! But girls who ar eperfect get guys after them all the time...its really downputting! So is it true?

2007-01-22 21:25:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you were a multi-millionaire what would you do to change the poverty that goes on in neighboring African cities

2007-01-22 21:21:45 · 5 answers · asked by Mr.Why? 2

I'm a little taller than 5'6" and my shoe size is 7(U.S. women's size).
Most of my friends wear size 5 1/2 to 6 1/2. Although they are shorter (from 5'2'' to 5'4''), this still makes me uncomfortable. What kind of shoes can make my feet look smaller? Thank you!

2007-01-22 21:21:39 · 8 answers · asked by Mobile P 1

I just want to settle down.... wife...kids..house...car ... dogs....horses....

2007-01-22 21:20:39 · 11 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4

I am an average guy, skinny and not so good looking and the only time any girl is interested in me is when i get a woody by accident- my dick is very thick and shows because i am skinny and once they see it they flirt and stay around to keep staring. why do they get so weird when they see a big dick

2007-01-22 21:15:58 · 21 answers · asked by mangotangome 1

I'm supposed to meet this guy this week for a project. He's cute and I want to ask him out, but it turns out the project has been handed over to someone else.

Should I still meet with the guy, and find something he can work on or should I wait until he has more work to do?

2007-01-22 21:10:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you think its ok if your with someone to let them go to a strip club? what if you found out your man went and he lied to about it and said that he didnt tell you bc he felt like **** but you heard him telling his friends it was worth every penny. what would you do??????????????

2007-01-22 21:08:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my mid-20s and am 5'4". I know most girls wants someone very tall, but are there any short girls in there mid-20s that don't mind a short guy? Ironically, a very tall girl (maybe 5'11" - plays basketball) is interested in me, but I was wondering how short girls feel.

2007-01-22 21:06:13 · 12 answers · asked by . 1

Seriously if you were a girl in the same situation, would you give it up to me?

2007-01-22 21:05:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend have been out on several dates now but were still both really shy round each other! he said he doesnt mind because he likes spending time with me anyway, but i feel like i want to know him a bit more

does anyone have any ideas about what we could do for a date which would help us get to know each other more?
bare in mind its freezing cold outside at the moment and we have already done the usual stuff like coffee, dinner, cinema etc...

also any other suggestions about how to generally be less shy around each other would be really appreciated :)

2007-01-22 21:05:29 · 23 answers · asked by sparkles_x 5

2007-01-22 20:55:19 · 15 answers · asked by Serena 2

i'm starting to see this guy., i know it's still early days but he's lovely, me and him have so much in common its scary! we can have a laugh and everything. he asked me out properly last nite, he's been hurt in the past and so have i. he promises he will never hurt me and i won't hurt him 2. we both want this to work out, i really like him. so wot u think?

2007-01-22 20:54:21 · 23 answers · asked by Amy 2

She has been just acting bitchy in general lately and i dont know why.
She has talked about other guys alot even though i have told her that i dont like that. She has been unussually bossy and has been insulting me not in a joking way, but in a stating a fact way like your so stupid. Though when i react to what she says and tell her to stop she says she is sorry and she loves me. She then continues to do it after 10 minutes. I get fed up with it and try to leave but she says sorry some more and i eventually stay some more even though i know she is going to treat me like crap some more. We have been going out for about 4 months and this has been going on for the last 2-3 weeks and i have been seriously considering breaking up with her but we have great times together sometimes and the first three months of our relationship was great. I dont know if i should give her another oppurtunity to change or just break it off now. Please give your opinion on what i should do

2007-01-22 20:49:30 · 18 answers · asked by a stranger 3

My sister was having a holiday in Paris 5 years ago. One day she went to the Arc de Triumph to take some pictures where she met one guy looking at her. Then they get to know each other because they were both from America,hence they decided to travel the country together.one day they both felt that their pure friendship relationship has advanced into the love stage,however both of them didnt have the guts to confess to each other. After the guy returned to America,he wrote to my sister that his ultimate wish was to revisit Paris one day with my sister,because he told her that he was suffering from a terminal illness - Leukaemia and he had only few more months to live,hence he was making use of his days left to travel the country. My sister was shocked and promised him that his last wish would be fufilled one day. Few years later,he never wrote back to her again,and my sister felt remorseful about not confessing that she loved him too. My sister never revisited Paris,as she stayed faithful to his wish to revisit Paris with her. He came as a surprise to her,and disappeared like the wind. However,he was the person who changed my sister’s life. Just sharing my sister’s true story with you guys.

2007-01-22 20:48:26 · 5 answers · asked by basshunter_poka 1

Not a bad breakup or anything like that.. just a separation.. couldn't be controlled. It's been years, and I still haven't gotten over it, I still have dreams like 2 or 3 times a week. And yes, trust me, I've TRIED to get over it. Maybe a part of me doesn't want to? I don't know.. anyway..

2007-01-22 20:46:41 · 8 answers · asked by Emo B 5

I am on the net everyday.My job performance has suffered.I talk to too many girls.I tell them I like them on the first day talking to them.I hate telling girls they are the only one for me because I tell that to all of them.I will never meet them and I should not play with their feelings.I am single and that is a problem.

2007-01-22 20:45:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-22 20:43:58 · 19 answers · asked by Kris 2

If a women has kind lost her attention on you, but she is giving you a change, what kind of things can get a womans attention back? I need some bold, exiting and good tips... I love this woman and Im willing to do anything it takes to gain her attention again.

2007-01-22 20:38:55 · 10 answers · asked by fuser86 2

I think i still love my ex but i dunno if to tell him or not as i know he doesn't feel the same way..

2007-01-22 20:32:28 · 26 answers · asked by Laura S 4

am i missing out on any thing

2007-01-22 20:31:44 · 4 answers · asked by devil weed 1

Seems as if the guys I've dated, when I'm straightforward with them with my needs, no commitment and sex...some companionship but its pretty clear cut that the relationship is mostly about sex...they move on. I get dumped.

So is it appropriate to say that men want more than a romp in the sack, they need consistent love from one partner?

2007-01-22 20:30:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seeing this girl for like 3 months, and I feel, so close to her, i seem to be able to talk to her about anything, and she is the same...I feel so comfy when im around her...
It also feels like i've known her for years, but its only been 3 months..

Do you ever get this..?

2007-01-22 20:24:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im tired of being alone all the time ,All i do is work,What i do for a living interferes with me meeting females. Would any of you ladys like to talk to me and get to know me. Thanks ladys

2007-01-22 20:24:15 · 3 answers · asked by lawson403 2

If one is very possessive is it because the element of love is more or is it the insecurity within.

2007-01-22 20:22:24 · 10 answers · asked by manna 1