i'm starting to see this guy., i know it's still early days but he's lovely, me and him have so much in common its scary! we can have a laugh and everything. he asked me out properly last nite, he's been hurt in the past and so have i. he promises he will never hurt me and i won't hurt him 2. we both want this to work out, i really like him. so wot u think?
2007-01-22 20:54:21 · 23 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it and give it a try just dont trust him 100% right from the start.if you dont give it a go you ll never find out what could have been.life is too short
good luck m8
2007-01-22 20:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mal S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? You said that both of you liked each other, so why not give it try. Just be careful though, coz, having everthing common between the two of you doesn't mean that you're going to give up everything. Yeah, both of you may have been hurt very much in your past relationships, but you'll never know if he'll stick with his word. I bet he's thinking the same. It's a slow but sure process, and keep in mind that you still got to know him better. If the two of you are very comfortable to each other, you know, the feeling of knowing the person "inside-out", I guess it's really the two of you... no doubt about that... ^_^
Just go for the green light while playing it safe...
2007-01-23 05:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by Chuwariwap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your instincts, he sounds perfect but dont rush things and see how it goes
we all have to kiss a lot of frogs before we get our prince but being hurt makes us grow, take every relationship as a learning experience.
Dont expect anything, then it makes all you get from this relationship special.
We are often dissapointed when the book we have written for ourselves, does not read the way we plan.
2007-01-23 05:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by sylvie c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with the flow and enjoy each others company for now and see what happens.Life is full of ifs and buts and we didnt take any chances we would never be happy.So take the chance and look to a bright future together!
2007-01-23 05:08:46 · answer #4 · answered by bevalou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live Happily Ever After
2007-01-26 13:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by x cutie x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course you must believe him.
Good relationships are first built on trust & this must never be lost.
Always be honest with him & demand honesty in return.
If you have a problem you must discuss it & he the same with you.
I wish you both happiness for the future & remember a guy is not just for christmas.
2007-01-23 05:40:07 · answer #6 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you have been hurt its very hard to trust someone again. i was hurt once, and for about a year after i was ending relationships to avoid the pain it caused. i have got over it though, its a slow process but you will learn to trusty this person, and he will learn to trusty you. if you have as much in common as you say you do, and you can be Friends as well as a couple, you will be fine. i have got over the trust issue, and my and my present boyfriend are in the same position as you.
2007-01-23 05:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by jo T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think u should be careful u said yourself that u have been hurt before, take time to know him before u go further in the relationship that doesn't mean u shouldn't go out with him just be careful because the heart is a fragile thing once broken it is hard to repair.
2007-01-23 05:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by FUMZY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH, you are so excited. There is so much optimism in your writing. I like this. It is so refreshing to read.
You go girl. Go for it. I am happy for you........!!!!! I don't even know you but just a fellow human being is so happy is in itself an encouragement.
Like President Reagan once said during his negotiations with the Russians, ".....Trust but verify.........." It rings true even today.
2007-01-23 05:02:16 · answer #9 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hesitate & have fun.. you both know what it is lik to be hurt so i cant see you wanting to do that to each other.. if things start to change then stop it while it is still early... but for now i would go for it!!!
2007-01-23 04:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋