She has been just acting bitchy in general lately and i dont know why.
She has talked about other guys alot even though i have told her that i dont like that. She has been unussually bossy and has been insulting me not in a joking way, but in a stating a fact way like your so stupid. Though when i react to what she says and tell her to stop she says she is sorry and she loves me. She then continues to do it after 10 minutes. I get fed up with it and try to leave but she says sorry some more and i eventually stay some more even though i know she is going to treat me like crap some more. We have been going out for about 4 months and this has been going on for the last 2-3 weeks and i have been seriously considering breaking up with her but we have great times together sometimes and the first three months of our relationship was great. I dont know if i should give her another oppurtunity to change or just break it off now. Please give your opinion on what i should do
2007-01-22 20:49:30 · 18 answers · asked by a stranger 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks for all the quick responses. You have all been a great help.
2007-01-22 21:04:05 · update #1
Well, i gotta feelin if she didn't want to break it off before , i'd recon she would now, as youve openly called her a ***** in a world wide forum...
bottom line tho, u aint happy , seems like she aint happy , neither of ya know what ya want, cuz she keeps pushing you away and you keep goin toExperience leave then takin her back...
ya need to sit and talk on a day shes not having a ... rough time... and see if the two of u can communicate... and find whats truly bothering her, she may be hurt by something you or someone else did or said and just trying to hide it, or be scared of feelings.. or yes she may want to leave you.. but you won't know until u talk...
honesty and communication are the backbone of any relationship... thats what you need to focus on at the moment, if you cant pull that much off.. the rest.. including this issue.. is meaningless in the end.. good luck.
2007-01-22 21:07:03 · answer #1 · answered by Josh Hunter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well i think before you decide to do anything you have to confront her about it. maybe not say that shes been bitchy but say it in a nicer way like you don't like how shes acting towards you and how it makes you feel etc. i dont think you should rush ahead and just break up with her without knowing exactly what is going on in this situation. although a month is a while for her to act like this. do you know if there is anything big going on in her life right now? that has been affecting her negatively? maybe all the stress is just building up... i think the best thing to do is confront her. then you can figure things out better and you wont regret whatever decision you decide to make. good luck. :)
2007-01-22 20:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by its me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't happy then you need to leave before she convinces you that you aren't worth anyone elses time and you are stuck feeling bad about yourself. If she was truly sorry for making you feel small she wouldn't do it anymore. There are lots of people left to meet in your life, don't waste that with someone who talks down to you. The first three months may have been great but things don't sound great now. You will find someone else to have great times with. Oh and don't fall for the "I need you so bad and I love you and can't live without you" junk either. If any part of that were true she would go out her way to not make you feel small especially since she knows she does it.
2007-01-22 20:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing games!!! This usally means that there might be someone else on the side and she is trying to see how far she can push you away, just in case she decides to move on! It is never acceptable for a lover to mistreat another in any kind of way! Move on, this relationship is becoming toxic!
2007-01-22 20:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is acting like this already just after 4 months then i think you should break up with her...the first few months are meant to be fun, you shouldnt have to worry about these things when you have only been dating for a short time. Dump her...
2007-01-22 20:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend could desire to have jumped in and stated as him out on it, everyone who respects their GF could desire to guard them, in spite of who's looking them regardless of. the element is, the guy could be mendacity, cos he sounds like an entire jerk, so consistent with danger he merely made it up. although why could he say that? in case you had a row this skill that he feels he would not have defended you, cos for sure like e.g. if somebody stated as my lady chum that i could be like what the F are you asserting? and speak to him out. i think of they're the two at fault, and you're no longer overreacting. the two certainly one of them sound like jerks, and you deserve greater powerful. PLUS what the girl mentioned would not make experience, 'do no longer take it heavily' whilst the guy mentioned tht bout ur BF. how are you able to no longer take that heavily? you mustn't permit human beings injury you. call your boyfriend out on it, tell him he could desire to have defended you and ask him if what tht guy mentioned is genuine. If he argues... then he's erroneous and is a jerk. I want you each and every and all of the terrific, take care and sturdy luck!
2016-11-26 20:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, sorry to be the one to tell you this, but thats what she wants. She just doesn't want to be the one to do it. She's ACTING like that because she wants YOU to break it off. It's been a short one. You'll be ok, you'll find another girl.
2007-01-22 20:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by gord's360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably trying to force an end to the relationship.
2007-01-22 20:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may b the b but you sound like 1 but break it off
2007-01-22 20:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of her there are too many fish in the sea! But let her know why you want to call it quits! Let her feel your pain!
2007-01-22 20:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by Double D's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋