I am in love with two people at present, One is an ex boyfreind - who abandoned me, after i told him that i was abused as a child, He didnt keep in touch at all, infact 5 bithdays he never even wished me, I was however in touch with his best friend, who is now a good friend of mine, I was mainly in touch with his best friend cause it was my link to my ex...
aNYHOW i am suppose to get engaged in 2 weeks from now (formally) - Informlly - Ive put the ring on hold, tough the guy has asked me twice... and i said yes, but no rings till the formal one..
my present guy - He' s a very nice guy - Um, i actually fell in love with him months after knowing him, he tends to put my needs first, and he's everything i would want a man to be, He's never ever let me down - and once he even held my hand the whole night after i told him i was scared about what was going to happen, he sat and held my hand tellin me to relax
My question - who do i choose, and how? do i tell my fiance abt my ex?
2007-01-22 21:25:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do i decide? what all do i look at? what do i tell my ex?
IF YOU WERE ME, WHAT WOULD U DO??
please post and advice
2007-01-22 21:26:16 · update #1
WHATEVER
2007-01-22 21:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by OMG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you choose the person your in love with and it sounds like the guy that is wanting to marry you. As for telling your fiance about your ex the choice is completely up to you. I told my husband about my ex when we got ingaged and i told him that we are still friends and nothing more and my husband was fine with it. but most of all you want to be honest with your soon to be husband and communicate with him as much as possible.
2007-01-22 21:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u kidding me id go with ur bf hands down woman dont be crazy
2007-01-22 21:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋