I think i still love my ex but i dunno if to tell him or not as i know he doesn't feel the same way..
2007-01-22 20:32:28 · 26 answers · asked by Laura S 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU may still love him, but are you "in love" with him?
2007-01-22 20:36:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
This sure is a pickle. Well I think if you do love him still and know that he doesn't love you there isn't much reason to tell him. I think that you might just get hurt because he's not going to respond to your feelings in the way that you want.
2007-01-22 20:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by Dormir 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I wouldn't waste my energy on telling a person who obviously doesn't feel the same I still love him. If you're hoping by telling him that he would change his mind then you're kidding yourself. Have more love for yourself and some pride. Love can't be forced. It has to be given away freely. You obviously really love him. The way I see it, he doesn't deserve to be loved by you so intensely since he doesn't feel the same. You deserve to be with someone who can love you back with sincerity.
2007-01-22 20:40:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if doesn't feel the same there is no point in telling him because you will just get hurt, even more hurt than you are probably feeling at the moment. Are you sure you haven't got mixed emotions about him?
2007-01-22 21:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my experience backwards is never a good thing- three weeks after spliting form my ex i could have sworn i still loved him but after two months i realised it was the habbit of having someone i loved not him! theres a differnce between saying i love you and actually being in love with someone, and trust me the resentment of it finishing in the first place does not go away and causes arguments no matter how grown up you both try to be! give yourself sometime to really think before you open more than your mouth ( and by that i mean't your heart not anything rude!!)
2007-01-22 20:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by scuba girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you believe that you still LOVE him you have to tell him. You have to use the chance now before it is too late and regret this. So try to get an opportunity and see what happens. You will never know his feelings right now.
Good Luck!
2007-01-22 20:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aw i know how you feel but i don`t think it`s wise to tell him if you know he doesn`t feel the same way,as hard as it is to do you just have to move on and leave him in the past,i`m going through the same thing but we have a child together so i`m never going to be able to forget him and to make things worse he was also my first love,so i`m heartbroken but know that you can`t make someone feel love for you know matter how hard you try.
2007-01-22 20:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always express your feelings on this matter. If you know for a fact that he doesn't have the same feelings for you, it would not hurt to express yours to him. Who knows? Once he realizes that you do really love him, his feelings may change for you. Good luck!
2007-01-22 20:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by CONSUELO S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out if he's seeing someone else or things will get confusing. Good luck! xx
2007-01-22 20:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by Hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ypu eill never know if you dont tell him but if you do and he doesnt feel the same way at least you can try and move on
2007-01-26 09:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by danielle s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont tell him you say you think you love him wait till your sure you do otherwise you'll just realise you dont and you'll break up again .
2007-01-22 20:39:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋