Seems as if the guys I've dated, when I'm straightforward with them with my needs, no commitment and sex...some companionship but its pretty clear cut that the relationship is mostly about sex...they move on. I get dumped.
So is it appropriate to say that men want more than a romp in the sack, they need consistent love from one partner?
2007-01-22 20:30:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm. Could it be that they feel used? Just like women, men need to feel they are more than just a way for you to get off.
2007-01-22 20:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ande 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems you give in to guys so easily gal and thats why all of them use u and then dump u.Take your precious time before getting into any relationship with ant guy.Am sure if it was me maybe it could have ended up just the same way.Gal i want you to have a meaning into your relationship and sex should come after you know each other so well,trust each other and feel its the right time for it.Am sorry that it has alredy happened but dear you still have a long way to go with life so you can make those hard decisions now and move on.I took six months to kiss my gf,guess how long it took for us to f@#k? Take your swittym dear in every relationship that you may want to get into and relly think if its going to work or you are just playing around.You have only one life to live before you die so make ONLY the right decisions.Am so sory but guys sucks at times though am one of them.Gudluck.
2007-01-22 20:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most do, I like making love to a woman just as much as anyone but I need and want more than just a romp. Makes me wonder how many romps she is having so even if she is unbelievably hot its a instant anti-Viagra when you start wondering who had the morning or the Tuesday romp with her.
-NmD!
2007-01-22 20:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you make it clear that you just want to have a sexual relationship without no commitment you will probably always get dumped! All men are different so try this approach. Tell them you want someone to have around for multiple, sexual, escapades but you want the relationship to be open! tell him he does not have to be commited to you just available for booty calls! Also look for a guy who is a self described "Playa" when a guy tells you he is a player he is basically telling you that he is not down for the commitment either. It's hard for me to believe that you can not find a man who is looking for what you are willing to give. You are perfect for the single guy not wanting to settledown!
2007-01-22 20:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is more to a relationship thn just having a romp in the sack, as a man, i would want to enjoy sex with someone i know i love and she loves me back not to just go around doing that with someone i dont love. There are times when men just want to satisfy their desire only for a brief period but in the long run, i can asure you that men do not want to hang around with with someone they do not love and someone they know will bail out at sme stage, they also feel used sometimes!
2007-01-22 20:40:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ayati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lisa, I think it varies from one guy to the next and how far each one has evolved into desiring love, companionship and of course great sex. I say it varies only because I do not feel comfortable in making sweeping generalizations.
2007-01-22 20:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you did mention that you only wanted sex, so I guess till now, that's probably what you'll be getting.
Of course, there will be guys who would prefer to settle down and love someone, yada yada, but if your stance continues to be "no commitments, sex inclusive", do you think any guy would want to initiate a long-term relationship? They'll probably think you don't want a serious relationship, and so won't treat it seriously.
2007-01-22 20:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by cargo_rigger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:38:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See one should be careful and have a knowledge of care for each other. Sex is just like a thirst for your body. Your body demands sex not mind. mind is a stupid who always fails to answer right thing in the time of need.
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2007-01-22 20:39:39 · answer #9 · answered by R K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There should be more to a relationship than sex. Being able to talk openly with some one who understands is so rewarding.
2007-01-22 20:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋