do you think its ok if your with someone to let them go to a strip club? what if you found out your man went and he lied to about it and said that he didnt tell you bc he felt like **** but you heard him telling his friends it was worth every penny. what would you do??????????????
2007-01-22 21:08:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont know if im fine with it. i dunno if that just low class or some freaky ****. but the lieing part is what gets me the most...
2007-01-22 21:18:29 · update #1
he knows how much it bother s me. im not jelous. im not a bad looking gurl at all and he is completely satisfied. i just dont understand why he would want to go and lie when hes got me all to himself?? i would feel grimey going to a strip club honestly. im not good enough or somthing?
2007-01-22 21:25:27 · update #2
we dont need other naked pple to spice up our relationship. all i need is me and him
2007-01-22 21:27:52 · update #3
i think i might be kinda mad because if he didn't want to tell you then he must have thought that you wouldn't have liked the fact that he was going/went to the strip club. for what I'm saying it doesn't matter whether or not you are actually mad, the fact that he thought it was worth hiding from you means that he thought you would have been mad and that it wasn't a good idea but he went a long with it anyways. so i guess i would be mad and confront him.
2007-01-22 21:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by its me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay if he goes to the strip club but it's not okay that he lied about it. however, he probably doesn't feel comfortable enough in your relationship to tell you the truth about it. if you don't have a problem with it, you should let him know that it's okay with you and that he doesn't have to lie about it. it's important that he is open with you and not lying to you. and also, you should try going with him a couple of times.. you would be amazed at how much it will actually spice up your relationship... and at the same time, you can see what he does while he's out so that you have a better idea of what goes on there. best of luck :)
2007-01-22 21:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a guy; but I don't believe in trying to stop anybody from doing something, as long as it's not directed at me and hurtful. If you find your boyfriend's going to look at naked women hurtful to your sensibilities, ask yourself "why?". Jealousy is a wasted emotion...
You can choose to strip for him yourself; then if he chooses to go out to see it, you'll know he prefers other women's bodies.
You can tell him you don't mind him hanging with his buddies anywhere else, but that it bothers you to have him looking at other naked women; the choice will still be his, though at that point you've warned him how it makes you feel. Then, you just have to decide whether it's important enough to leave him over...are you willing to sacrifice everything you have together over that?
2007-01-22 21:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok if he's ok with you going to see the Male strippers!
I know that watching the male dancers can spice things
up in a real good way cuz you find out what kinda man you
want in the bed & in life as far as body is concerned,& charm,
ect..... but it can't really help you find the guy you want to be
with all your life,ect.....
If he's fair,then go visit the strip clubs with male strippers!!!
If he don't let you do that,then he's bad news period & you
know your answer girl!
2007-01-22 21:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'd let my guy go to a strip club. He can enjoy himself with his friends, admire those women, feel turned on, get back home and have it with me. Sometimes men need to do 'guy' things with their buddies. As long as it is a ONE time fun thing, just to know what it is, it's ok.
2007-01-22 21:17:11 · answer #5 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on girl do the math. he went to the strip club you found out he was embarrass he got caught,NOW you know there was probably a little lap dancing going on a lil touching, he was just having fun.
2007-01-22 21:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by lesuiremike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him in the room and immediatelly start a session of strip dancing in front of him ha..ha.. sounds funny but it'll help.
2007-01-22 21:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by wilddude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its okay to let them go to a strip club.
Don,t make him feel he has to lie to you about it.
It can spice up your relationship - another thing a
lot of woman have started to go to see lap dancers
now.
2007-01-22 21:13:37 · answer #8 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well first of all......it dont sound like a strong relationship as he has been lieng ....if he can lie about somthing like that wot else has he been up 2....if it was my man id kick his a** ....so you tell him how you feel about this....gd luck gal
2007-01-22 21:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by tootytoon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I'm personally fine with it and if you are, then you should sit him down and tell him you would of been fine with it, and then ask him why he was telling you one thing and his friends another.
2007-01-22 21:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋