Singles & Dating - 19 January 2007

Mary SMember since: October 19, 2006

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Would you throw in the towels cause he's not ready to commit or is it still early?
I've been dating this guy for 5 months He likes me too... I am ready for a commitment and I think he would rather go slow...that's ok sometimes except that I'm in love with him..he gets turned off when I tell him that I want more...we've talked about it but I think it pushes him away cause he feels I'm rushing....I think he wants to go slow cause he gets a lot of attention from other females and he likes it. We have a good time together and have a lot in common...New Years I told him "It's a new year and I want more" If he's not willing to give it I was moving on...now our relationship is on pins on needles but we still talk on the phone and he still spends time (even though now limited) with me. I don't think that he's afraid to commit ...just that he is not ready to walk down the

2007-01-19 07:56:21 · 14 answers · asked by Mary S 2

2007-01-19 07:55:42 · 6 answers · asked by broseph 1

It's weird because they like check me out and sometimes stare in the hallway. I am in high school. There was even an incident where I went to SubWay and there were 4 male teachers sitting and eating and as I was walking in the two that were sitting facing me said "wow" and they were staring and the other two turned around. One said "she is a student at our school" than they got up and left really quickly.

2007-01-19 07:55:34 · 15 answers · asked by Mara D 1

I'v been talking to this guy for 6 month, we see each other all the time, last night we came close to having sex, but he stoped it.....
he said he didnt want to mess up what we have, i asked what do we have,he said he'll tell me later.. i don't want to wait, i like this guy so much.. i have never told him how much i like him, but am sure he knows, well he knows he's the only guy i want, he knows how bad i want him, i tell him all the time. some one out there help me, i'm so confused....

2007-01-19 07:54:12 · 28 answers · asked by hell f 1

ok I was dateing this guy and he had come over and we had sex then he said that he had feelings for his ex ok WHAT THE HELL could he not have come up with taht sooner? I mean if all he wanted was a tumble in the barn hell I would have Gladly provided him with that it had been a while for me hell I wanted it to but he should have told me that was all he wanted before instead of useing me like that!!!! and he called me last night and blamed it on everyone but himself where the blame solely lies. what should I do about him??? He has no clue I might be pregnate I have yet to tell him I skipped! I need advice! what do you think?

2007-01-19 07:53:54 · 8 answers · asked by Fighting Irish Lass 3

Ok, i went to the store and i saw this guy that comes into were i work alot. i didnt really know what to say to him but he was looking at me. so when i walked by him i just said "hey whatca doing out here?" he said "Not much. Where do I know you from?" and i told him. he smiled and said "oh yeah." I said "I know i look like crap without my makeup and everything." laughed and started to walk away. he called out to me so i turned around and he said " you shouldn't be so pretentious about the way you look." or ".......about your looks." What do think he ment by that? That im pompus or stuck up? it cant be that cause im really not in anyway. im just lost by the way he used that word.

2007-01-19 07:53:51 · 2 answers · asked by true 2

I just started to realize that when I go to ask out a girl I like and I give her my e-mail (which is my Yahoo answers too) that she would be able to see the questions I've been asking. And I don't think that if I go to ask a girl out that they won't be happy with my questions expecially if i ask the girl out thats in this question.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap_ntuipfW4rnOoXVzDIUtHsy6IX?qid=20070118114631AAWCRzM

So my question is how can I try to prevent her from seeing my questions I've asked if I give her my e-mail? What do I say or do if she finds out and reads them?

2007-01-19 07:52:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in the 11th grade and I have never had a boyfriend. I am fat and have not lost weight since 2nd grade. And I will never blosoom!!! What should I do? The only time I look skiny It when you look at my avatar!
HELP!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-19 07:51:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-19 07:48:59 · 27 answers · asked by Mr. Zuzzshi 1

2007-01-19 07:48:55 · 12 answers · asked by FIDM89 1

A friend of mine, who I've known for a long time just recently, New years day to be exact, told me he likes me. I just recently have been feeling that I do too. I wanna let him know how I feel. What do you guys think is a good idea of how to tell him?

2007-01-19 07:48:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

theres this guy in my school and we became the best of frinds, we both like eachother and he likes me, but why isnt he asking me out, he gives me signs all the time and never stops talking to me...i like him so much, and he knows it by the way i act around him...idk what to do...PLEASE HELP ME!!!

2007-01-19 07:48:11 · 12 answers · asked by samyjoe515 2

this guy asked me to a movie online and i think it is just me and him. what do you think this means because i dont know if i should consider it as a date or just as friends going out with each other. he has been really friendly with me lately but i heard that he likes this other girl. he talks to just me when i am around other people and its not weird at all. does he have feelings for me? you decide.

2007-01-19 07:46:19 · 3 answers · asked by sparks12star 3

I have 2 choices, but I still feel like Im at a dead end. I was dating this guy and we decided to slow it down. He says hes not ready for the intensity we had previously. we were apart for 3 weeks cuz of winter break. we're at the same university. since we decided to slow it down hes been hostile towards me. and he hasnt explained his behavior sufficently enough.

ive taken 2 days off from him and he came to my room looking for me. i did the same thing last week and he called me non-stop. he makes it seem like he misses me, but when we are together he acts different. its hard to be around him and fight the luvy duvyness i want to show him. its also hard to stay away when it seems for at least a fleeting moment he cares.

He just cant commit. To me or anyone else. Somehow I still think there is hope. Can someone give me the harsh reality of this situation? I can either stay or go.

2007-01-19 07:45:15 · 5 answers · asked by Tian 3

2007-01-19 07:45:01 · 10 answers · asked by Jessie 2

1.brains
2.body
3.face
4.some particualar part (legs,or eyes, lips, teeth)?
5.other
thank you very much:)

2007-01-19 07:44:38 · 6 answers · asked by July 1

2007-01-19 07:43:43 · 6 answers · asked by Jessie 2

Well, a week ago me and a girl i am talking to was coming from the auto show. She was driving so i began to text my first love. We always talk at 11 but, anyways we was texting back and forth and she began to lean over and was reading all my text messages at every red light. So i told the girl i was texting what was going on. I began tp say " im in the car with her and she is kinda mad cause she read all my messages to you, She replies back and say "Well stop texting me then." Next day i tell her "goodnight and sorry about what happen." she says back "goodnight" Is it over between us? Or can i recover p.s She has a boyfriend but.. thats a hole other story. Also she already knew about brushell. I never ment to hurt her and no i didn't like the attention

2007-01-19 07:43:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating this guy for 5 months He likes me too... I am ready for a commitment and I think he would rather go slow...that's ok sometimes except that I'm in love with him..he gets turned off when I tell him that I want more...we've talked about it but I think it pushes him away cause he feels I'm rushing....I think he wants to go slow cause he gets a lot of attention from other females and he likes it. We have a good time together and have a lot in common...New Years I told him "It's a new year and I want more" If he's not willing to give it I was moving on...now our relationship is on pins on needles but we still talk on the phone and he still spends time (even though now limited) with me. I don't think that he's afraid to commit ...just that he is not ready to walk down the aisle and is afraid that's what I want...I'm not ready for that yet either...what we do have now is a great friendship with great, funfilled intimacy....would you throw in the towels cause he's not ready

2007-01-19 07:40:26 · 3 answers · asked by Mary S 2

just wondering. cause i kinda did

2007-01-19 07:38:34 · 57 answers · asked by Jenny S 1

it all started at a school dance. he was the sweet guy friend that i danced with for my last dance it was picture perfect. but after that night i have allways had a soft spot for him. this was two years ago. its not like im an obsessed freak or any thing, but i am bad at showing my feelings. We have be distant friends sence then, but i want to be so much more. my friend told him today that i like him but what i didnt know was that he liked me a couple mounths ago...did i misss my window of oppertunity?

2007-01-19 07:38:23 · 16 answers · asked by Meredith 1

do i dump him

2007-01-19 07:37:49 · 16 answers · asked by thegoods 1

or dance ? take a place on the stage, let's set this stupid place on fire! We need DJ's and go go dancers to! Whatever moves ya baby! Dress is optional.........

2007-01-19 07:37:29 · 18 answers · asked by lowroad 1

I mean I love doing it but I just wonder why they like it?

2007-01-19 07:37:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-19 07:36:49 · 33 answers · asked by Boltez 1

what if your boyfriend calls you and say you lied about you was in the wrong grade you in and you told him what grade you was in when you first meet?

2007-01-19 07:36:28 · 11 answers · asked by tyniqua f 1

I like a woman in a corset. The real corsets with the ribbings and such. I know the real ones are expensive and some people look at me like I'm nuts. I just love that waist trimming, bust enhancing hourglass figure. So am I the only guy that likes women in these things?

If they make a time machine, I want to go back to the victorian era. :-D

2007-01-19 07:35:49 · 8 answers · asked by Ben B 3

2007-01-19 07:35:35 · 4 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2

I was recently "dumped" by a guy I was seeing...well, when I say "dumped", I mean he suddenly stopped all contact with me.

I waited six weeks before we slept together and everything seemed to get better after that. We were only together for a few months but it felt so right. I tried not to get too involved as he'd only recently come out of a relationship but I couldn't help it - he was so attentive and caring.

He said he found it really easy to talk to me and opened up to me very early on. I'm not fazed by anything though he did have a lot of baggage. I was just happy he felt he could tell me anything; it brought us close.

It's been a few weeks now and I'm trying to forget him, but how can I when I don't have closure? It's killing me!! I know he's OK and is probably seeing someone else now. How could he just drop me like that? How could he not face telling me he'd had enough yet was able to open up to me about his past?!

I don't get it. Any advice would be appreciated.

2007-01-19 07:35:24 · 35 answers · asked by Nicole B 1

He's braking my heart because i dont know what to do for him any more... He knows im trying and apprechiates it but he gets mad when i cross the line and snaps at me telling me to mind my own business. But gets upset when i dont notice. He hides his emotions most of the time and has openly admitted he wants to marry me ( i am not jumping to conclusions but he told this to his mom, thats a big thing for him. He doesnt even believe in marriage most the time) Then after i found out he was embarassed and didnt say it any more. He loves me, trust me im not the kind to be blind, i know this. Its just i am running out of ideas to help him. A little FYI: We've been together for only 5 months, he had very serious personal issues when he was around the age of 10 and he has decided for the both of us that sex isnt important and we should hold off for a while, though neither one of us are virgins. So sex wont help things. Any ideas?

2007-01-19 07:34:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous