just wondering. cause i kinda did
2007-01-19 07:38:34 · 57 answers · asked by Jenny S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nope
guilt and sex don't mix
we are animals, we get horny sometimes, the challenge is to do it with people around your own age who are a good match for you.
its best to figure it out ahead of time so you have no regrets later
2007-01-19 07:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I didn't feel guilty. My first time was with my this guy whom I ended up being in a relationship with for 3 years. I was 20 when I lost my virginity.
Before I even did it I thought about the process and possible regrets and reasons as to why and why not and who and who not.
I wanted to basically lose my virginity to someone I wouldn't regret, even if it didnt turn into a relationship.
I met someone followed my impulse and it was greatt!!
2007-01-19 08:41:10 · answer #2 · answered by Pudge_Monsta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you felt guilty it's because you were not ready for that step. Now you don't really have a way to turn it back so just use this as an experience for your future encounters with sexual pressures. If you want it & are 100% sure of it you will not feel guilty abou it.
2007-01-19 08:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mishee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, I didn't really feel guilty,
I just felt guilty for lying to my parents about it for 9 months,
The sex was great, And there is no way I regret it,
But lying to my parents, Is something I really regret, Still to this day.
It's all good,
Making love is fun,
It's meant to be done passionately without regret.
If you do feel guilty, figure out why, and learn from your "mistakes"
Don't worry about it,
Just love yourself,
And forgive and let the regret go.
No reason to live in regret.
It's only living in hell, as well as living in the past.
xoxoxo
2007-01-19 07:45:29 · answer #4 · answered by It's Just me.... Kiwi :) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little bit. At first I was scared, but she had promised me it would be fun for me and made me feel comfortable.
I felt a little guilty afterwards like I had been coaxed into something I didn't want to do. The funny thing is, the next time we did it, I initiated it.
2007-01-19 07:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. I felt guilty about it because The relationship wasn't very serious or even very long. No because what we shared was a very great and moving event in my own personal life and how I have been looking at everything since.
2007-01-19 07:45:19 · answer #6 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first I didn't because I got mine and I didn't know she was expecting to get hers. After I found out she was I felt guilty so I had to do a do-over.
2007-01-19 07:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilty? No, not at all.
Sex is nothing to feel guilty about. It is a natural thing between two people who are attracted to eachother.
Don't feel guilty. Enjoy :-)
2007-01-19 07:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, although it was something I wanted to do and couldn't wait to do...I just wanted to know and get past those 1st time jitters. I definitely don't regret, but I felt guilty for years. But hormones always won the battle with guilt...lol.
But its what our society teaches us...we're not taught responsibility or accountability for your actions, but to be ashamed of ourselves as human beings. There is nothing wrong with sex, so long as its something you want to do on your own free will.
2007-01-19 07:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt feel guilty i felt good cuz it was my first time...but i kinda see why anyone should or would feel guilty and i kinda feel like that now becuase im nto married and i gave myself away already. dont sweat it though!
2007-01-19 07:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋