He's braking my heart because i dont know what to do for him any more... He knows im trying and apprechiates it but he gets mad when i cross the line and snaps at me telling me to mind my own business. But gets upset when i dont notice. He hides his emotions most of the time and has openly admitted he wants to marry me ( i am not jumping to conclusions but he told this to his mom, thats a big thing for him. He doesnt even believe in marriage most the time) Then after i found out he was embarassed and didnt say it any more. He loves me, trust me im not the kind to be blind, i know this. Its just i am running out of ideas to help him. A little FYI: We've been together for only 5 months, he had very serious personal issues when he was around the age of 10 and he has decided for the both of us that sex isnt important and we should hold off for a while, though neither one of us are virgins. So sex wont help things. Any ideas?
2007-01-19 07:34:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hes depressed about quite a few things right now... he definiately hasnt had an easy life. in the last 4 years he has had 2 houses burn to the ground, battled a drug abuse problem which for now he is doing great with, was as a small child had an awful trama to him mentaly and his step father died ( which was the only man around threw his entire life) by a suicide/murder. And so hes been pretty upset about all of these things pouring onto him.
2007-01-20 02:48:12 · update #1
umm.. maybe try a counceling thing??? Or if you're into religon, maybe trying a small group with some other people around your ages... good luck
2007-01-19 07:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him(if need be with some help from another friend or his family) to a doctor or even a counselor. His depression, from your description, sounds like it's getting worse not better. For you to stand by him like you have, Mazltov!! He needs help big time though. He and you can't do it alone! Yes,it will be difficult to get him to go. It's more important that you get him to go no matter what he may say or threaten to do though.
2007-01-19 07:42:49 · answer #2 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression. If he is really clinically depressed can be very dangerous. Depressed people sometimes off themselves.
He needs to get some therapy. You never really said what he is depressed about. Is it something specific. Is it just general?
He should seek some help. Did this start recently?
2007-01-19 07:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by trichbopper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
search the net fr ideas how to help try
www.depression.com
its not that sex isn't important its just depressed people's sex drive is down always
depressed people need touching and hugging alot hold his hand alot.
2007-01-19 07:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by simply_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression is disease. If you are not a doctor, then he needs to be talking to someone else to get the help he needs.
2007-01-19 07:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by wuxxler 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try with all your heart to do what you can you can't always be there for him do things together that he likes
2007-01-19 07:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by thegoods 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-19 07:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋