I am in the 11th grade and I have never had a boyfriend. I am fat and have not lost weight since 2nd grade. And I will never blosoom!!! What should I do? The only time I look skiny It when you look at my avatar!
HELP!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-19 07:51:11 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you will not!
2007-01-19 07:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by Endangered Feces! 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Weight isn't your problem your attitude is. You need to have more of a positive outlook on life. You think just because your over weight that's the reason why you don't have a boyfriend and your simply wrong! Inner beauty is more important then outer beauty. Until you realize that for yourself you will always just be 'overweight' and nothing more.
I have 2 children and it took a lot of effort to get my body back in shape but i had the will power to do that. If you need assistance or would like to talk about any of your problems you are having with yourself...email me!
2007-01-19 18:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure you will, but you have to put in some effort and not expect to be the one asked out all the time.
Sometimes if you want a boyfriend, you'll have to ask one out yourself. Don't freak out, just ask one to the movies, lunch, bowling alley, ect... It may seem like an end-of-life crisis if he says no, but it's really not in the big scheme of things. Better than being a cat lady!! :)
If you feel really self-consious about your weight and you think it's telling the boys "Don't bother with me", it's probably not as much as you think. You can always try going on a diet, counting your calories, and excersizing if it's what you please!!
Good Luck! Pray and don't give up hope! :)
2007-01-19 16:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been big all my life and i thought i would never find a boyfriend . It may take awhile. I was 24 when i found my true love and now i'm 27 and we are getting married in a few months. These things take time. If guys can't except women in everyway then i say the hell with them. My fiancee thinks the world of me and he has told me that i am beautiful to him no matter what.
2007-01-19 16:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by msexkitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worked at for a few years. and have been a member of a health club for 34 years, the way to loose weight is eat whole natural foods, and get a stationary bike & put it in front of the TV and ride it all the time.NO junk foods,Good luck Honey.
Ow.and also I wont to tell you this, I got beat up by the most fat & uglist girl .when I was young.Dad told me to hit her back so I did, but I was in the hospital. this absolutly pretty lady came in,and introduced herself.she was that girl, their was NO resembalance at all, she was so very pretty she could have run for miss South Carolina, you can change if you wont to.
But you have to decide to do the changeing, no one will or can do it for you. sweety.
2007-01-19 15:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make a conscious effort to lose weight. Excercize, change your diet, get your parents to let you go to a nutritionist for tips and help with it.
You're young enough, that if you redefine your habbits and do the right thing, you can really improve your life and your health.
It's not just about boyfriends. It's about the entire quality of your life. You need to ask yourself what kind of life you want to have.
2007-01-19 16:00:39 · answer #6 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finding a boyfriend isnt that easy. It really doesnt matter how you look because their a person out there for eveyone. Thing about what type a boy you like and it dont have to be the average good looking captain of the football team. He could be a nice self- centered person whos looking for the one too. KEEP YOUR EYES OPENED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-19 15:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by lissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're beautiful Casey...and really I do.
Everyone is not meant to be a size 4. We are all different. You seem smart, bright, and funny, and you're certainly pretty.
Any guy would be lucky to have you. Do it for yourself...when you're ready. Start changing your eating habits a bit and put in a little more execise..you're still young enoug for you to look ay way you'd like.
Good luck honey!!
2007-01-19 16:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your fat deosnt mean you want get a boyfriend im fat and married to a skinny women you can get anybody you want i think its in all how you present yourself to other people you got to have confidence in your self and dont look down on your self and be patient good things will come
2007-01-19 15:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by Bored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know EXACTLY how you feel!
All my life I have been overweight, last year I have worked out a lot to reduce the body weight to the normal/a bit chubby look which I have now...
Don't worry, even you will get somebody, there is always somebody that likes you you just dont know it...because you dont notice, because you are too busy focusing on your problems...
2007-01-19 15:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by Mariella Williams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, consider your self image. how do you look at yourself and carry yourself? if you're always 'hiding' it won't help your self image.
the next step is to go on a diet.. and hit the gym maybe every day for a couple of hours or so.. what do you eat? it all affects your body... sometimes your weight will inhibit your beauty.. so you should put your chin up, accept the facts, and go on a diet & work out.. hope this helps..
2007-01-19 15:56:55 · answer #11 · answered by blossomoftheseas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋