theres this guy in my school and we became the best of frinds, we both like eachother and he likes me, but why isnt he asking me out, he gives me signs all the time and never stops talking to me...i like him so much, and he knows it by the way i act around him...idk what to do...PLEASE HELP ME!!!
2007-01-19 07:48:11 · 12 answers · asked by samyjoe515 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, assuming that he's not dating someone else and is not gay, does he know that you are interested in more than friendship?
I know many women that have fun flirting and joking around with guys and have no intent of dating them. It can be confusing, so it can be hard for a guy to risk crossing that friendship line.
Why not just ask him out? If he says yes, great; if he says no, well, at least you know and still have a friend; if you don't do anything, you'll kick yourself for years to come.
2007-01-19 07:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by Celt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the EXACT situation. I really like my best guy friend. Here's what I did. I was talking to him online and I just asked him if he liked me. I kinda had to ask him because of the question I posted on here (Read it, it may help. there are two versions. both are the same)
To my suprise, he said he likes me a little...... But he still won't ask me out. I actually asked him out a few weeks ago. I didn't regret it at all like some people would. It was kinda reliving. But before you ask him out or anything, make sure that if you get together and break up that it won't ruin yor friendship. Because then one you will just end up feeling bad.
Ok, this is absolutly killing me, but trust me, it works. You will hate what I am about to say and I hated it when someone told me to do this. It is extreamly hard but it really works. But first (Before you do this) try flirting. Now, for the part that you will not like. Just wait for him. If you truly like him, you will wait as long as it takes to get him.
I hope this helps. Good luck with him. But seriously, the question I wrote on here will help you. It is the exact same problem. And don't listen to people that say that it isn't a good idea to fall for your friends, because sometimes they fall for you too.
2007-01-19 08:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Unknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can be friends with guys! Here are some simple tips... 1. First, just start talking to them. Just turn to the guy next to you in class. Befriend him and you probably also unlocked a group of his friends. 2. Don't be afraid to be yourself! Do you love sports, being competitive, video games etc..? Guys love this stuff, and love a girl who will do it too. And even if you don't know of or like video games, ask a guy to show you his fav game, and u will most likely become addicted...trust me lol. 3. What not to talk to guys about: clothes, make up, shopping, gossip....guys aren't into that sorta thing. They are also anti-drama. Don't ask for dating advice b/c they may get a "more then friends" vibe.
2016-03-29 05:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls mature in the relationship field before most boys. Have a talk with him and give him a day or two to answer. You could have the first date with a group in case friendship is the best decision.
2007-01-19 07:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's worried about ruining the friendship or that if u go out it might not work out and then things would be awkward between the two of u, just let him knou two will always be friends even if dating doesn't work out
2007-01-19 07:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by clutzmuch276 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is shy, just ask casually whether he would like to go to a movie.
2007-01-19 07:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't feel the same way about each other, one will always be more attracted in 'that' way than the other will be.
2007-01-19 07:51:15 · answer #7 · answered by Geico Caveman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait and be patient
you might not actually have found a guy who likes you
he might just be flirting for no reason
don't worry it might be lust not love
2007-01-19 08:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by emu2013 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a risk and ask him out. he might either say yes or no. but take a leap
2007-01-19 07:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so hot you intimadate him so you might want to ask him before he picks a ugly girl
2007-01-19 07:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋