Singles & Dating - 8 December 2006

i have been in a relationship for five years with this very great guy. he is going to propse to me on christmas and i don't know what to do. i love him, but some things i cannot see myself not doing for the rest of my life, like not being able to wear certain hairstyles or certain outfits or do certain things like hang out with my friends (oh, did i tell you he doesn't like any of my friends?) or do things i normally would do. we break up and get together . i love this man besides all the sh*t he's put me through. embarrassing me in public, his friends and family and treating me like sh$t. i want to leave so badly, but i don't know how. when you love somebody, crazy things are what you do, like staying with that person. you try to leave them but they keep coming back. he's told me that he would not change for me and if i didn't like the rules i can leave. he's also threatened me on many occassions that if he catches me w/ another man he will kill us. how can i go w/out fear 4 my life?

2006-12-08 06:48:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Without her knowing any of this..Any advice?

2006-12-08 06:48:11 · 15 answers · asked by yummy_tummyus 1

dating

2006-12-08 06:47:30 · 8 answers · asked by mahesh k 1

2006-12-08 06:47:13 · 27 answers · asked by TheArtistFormalyKnowAsSlavemaker 1

i am 110 and my friends are all 95-100 should i lose the extra 10 pounds for guys? since they all seem to find skinny girls attrative

2006-12-08 06:46:58 · 19 answers · asked by zoey z 2

if you were out with your new partner ?

2006-12-08 06:45:47 · 27 answers · asked by ? 5

2006-12-08 06:45:29 · 15 answers · asked by KaShae 4

I have been with a lot of guys before but it's just recently that i have been involved with an asian. I wasn't expecting much from his thingie after all the talks about asian men and their sizes. but was i surpized with my current bf, he was all but small. about average in length compared to my ex-boyfriends but far bigger in girth. and compared to my other experiences whom were flabby, his is a lot more rigid. :)

2006-12-08 06:43:18 · 10 answers · asked by slly_rnld 1

In my dream i was at my school(i still go to school)in my class and all of sudden a man half dressed came in the calssroom and was very freaky....he was a man who was selling drugs and had something to do with the devil!And he said "i am going to pick one of you" and he looked at me and said "u"and i started screaming and he said "i am going to leave someone in charge to decide who will come with me" and he picked one of my best friends and alla of a sudden my friend was kind of hypnotized and was staring at me!!when the man left all in the calss started screaming and running to leave when i left the calssroom i was running and saw the guy i liked who was living too.He grabed my hand and we run.And then we went to the school yard and waited and was huging the guy i liked all the time because i was very scared....and then my friends were like "Hey the describsion the man gave is like u!!we must give u in order to servive.."and i said "No.No!"and i woke up.What does that mean

2006-12-08 06:41:06 · 11 answers · asked by ~CoNniE~ 1

2006-12-08 06:40:01 · 24 answers · asked by funk_sista1 1

alright, well I’ve been dating this guy for about a year now and at first my friends were totally cool with it. they thought it was cute. but now that its been almost a year and we haven’t broken up, all my friends are mad. why is this? one of my friends told me that she thought we would break up by now and its so annoying that we didn’t. are they just jealous? or what? i just dont get it, its a good relationship and im very serious about him. but all my friends always talk smack about me behind my back and there always mad. what should i do?

2006-12-08 06:39:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you had to improve one thing about his performance what would it be and more importantly WHY?

2006-12-08 06:39:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-08 06:37:51 · 15 answers · asked by kimbo_200803 1

2006-12-08 06:37:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-08 06:37:00 · 11 answers · asked by samygirl2010 1

I m 21 , she is about 25. we both in college.

2006-12-08 06:36:02 · 4 answers · asked by LB James 3

When I take a Chick for a stroll in my bike, they ride in the back on the seat, oh what's the name of it, I can't seem to think of it at the moment. Little help?

http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blog-Nr4iWwE.f6MWSl0AAmWri2pV9rCIp6CCpNR3?p=30

2006-12-08 06:35:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-08 06:34:30 · 21 answers · asked by scotty_no_sabe 2

i've liked this guy for a really long time, and some people are telling me that he likes me. what should i do? should i ask him out? or should i wait?

2006-12-08 06:33:16 · 12 answers · asked by sarah 1

My ex and i broke up a week ago cause of space issues that she had. she called me yesterday saying that she is depressed and basically misses me. do u think i should see her today or is it too early.

2006-12-08 06:33:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've tried... anal, some toys, most positions,
I will try the game that was suggested and maybe candle wax...

thanks guys... keep em coming..

you should be able to email me now too...

2006-12-08 06:31:12 · 7 answers · asked by jairman2004 2

what would be ur favorite trick,
from a girl
in the bedroom

2006-12-08 06:30:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

iam a single woman living with my boyfriend in a beautiful house with 3 kids from a previous relationship. my boyfriend and i always fight because of my kids and all the bills we must pay. he likes to throw things in my face when he does something for me or my kids. well i just recieved a letter from housing, which i have been waiting for 5 yrs and they have accepted me. i love my man, but he tells me that the projects are nasty and that he would never live there. but i feel that it would be great because i would have a 3 bedroom apartment too and only pay 200 dollars a month, i don't know what i am going to do. he said that if i move, it is over. we have been together for 5 yrs and i love him, but iam confused.

2006-12-08 06:30:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I work with this Latin guy at a Grill/Tavern. He is very sweet and seems really genuine and he doesn't speak any English, but I speak Spanish. He has held my hand before (before I found out he COULD be married), calls me "sexy" and "bonita" and asks me why I don't have a boyfriend, "porque tu eres muy bonita." The other day I misunderstood something he said and I took it the wrong way, he told me how sorry he was and that he was sad when I didn't talk to him. He said that I was his best "amiga" and that he wanted to be friends "siempre" or always. I have to admit he is very charming but I am a little bit leary because I have heard that sometimes Latin men can be very charming to American women and then be decieving because of the language barrier. I know that all men can be this way, but should I be concerned? I just want to be friends because I have heard he could have a wife back home and I only want a platonic relationship anyways..how should I handle this?

2006-12-08 06:30:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

this guy does not love and i cant live without him. any advise?

2006-12-08 06:30:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you feel about women deciding to have children at a young age or before they have really established their own lives?

2006-12-08 06:29:25 · 7 answers · asked by Airtight 2

everytime i find a guy i think is really sweet he turns out to be a jerk...how can i tell if hes sweet or not? i really want a good one this time

2006-12-08 06:29:21 · 5 answers · asked by Ashley M 2

Yesterday in Math class my ex-bf asked my friend who I have a crush on. And who she is gonna call to tell the person I have a crush on them. Why would my ex -bf want to know? Its none of his buisness and he dumped me. Its not like I dumped him.

2006-12-08 06:28:24 · 8 answers · asked by Steph1490 4

Do men care if a woman has a hair weave/extensions or do you prefer her to wear her own hair? In most cases it enhances the look, like celebs and models.

I go back and forth from my medium length hair to long weave, but I get alot more attention with the weave.

2006-12-08 06:27:33 · 3 answers · asked by cincy_beautie 1

ok...my girl was talkin to some guy.when he found out she wasnt going to sleep with him he just wanted to be friends. a week later he decides he still likes her and will wait...should she still talk to him?

2006-12-08 06:27:23 · 4 answers · asked by iLOVEyou 1