alright, well I’ve been dating this guy for about a year now and at first my friends were totally cool with it. they thought it was cute. but now that its been almost a year and we haven’t broken up, all my friends are mad. why is this? one of my friends told me that she thought we would break up by now and its so annoying that we didn’t. are they just jealous? or what? i just dont get it, its a good relationship and im very serious about him. but all my friends always talk smack about me behind my back and there always mad. what should i do?
2006-12-08 06:39:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, well i forgot o say this but my freinds are all also his friends. i know that all of them have liked him in the past but they say they dont now.
2006-12-08 06:51:45 · update #1
one of the hardest things about being in a relationship with a guy is learning to balance your current friendships. I've been dating the same guy for three years and I know exactly what your talking about. If you really like the guy, which it sounds like you do, there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to continue dating him. It sounds like your friends might be feeling left out, though, so make an extra effort to include them. Make sure to have a "girls night" every once in a while, or time that you spend with just them so they know you haven' t forgotten them or they don't feel like he's more important. Also, try and have some stuff where all of you ( bf and friends) hang out together and make sure to pay equal attention to everyone, so your friends can get to know your boyfriend and see that you can be around him and still be interested in talking to other people.
I hope this helps, good luck!
2006-12-08 06:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is too little information for anybody here to give you a good answer.
Usually when a whole lot of people have a problem with a relationship they are not in, they see something the people in the relationship doesn't.
I've two friends who are in a relationship and I can see where things will being going bad soon. I know better than to say anything, they wouldn't listen to me. All I can do is wait for the inevitable crash and burn.
2006-12-08 14:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should do what you want and not what your friends think...They are just jealous and their just doing the wrong thing...They should be happy for you and making it so long in a relationship...Now im not saying to not be friends with them but remember friends support what you do in the toughest of times and in the happiest of times...Talk to them and make them understand that they should be happy for you OR at least you could talk to them and figure out why their so jealous...GOOD LUCK
2006-12-08 14:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by weyboom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like this person and you want to be with him. then those are not your friends and anyone that cant say how they feel to your face is a chicken and also not your friend. so i say go for the love not the b.s. people that are trying to say they are your friends
2006-12-08 14:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by stunt101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to them. Clearly they envy your relationship with him. They are just jealous because they can just hope and dream that one day they could have as good as a relationship as you and your boyfriend have.
2006-12-08 14:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by GuMi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are very jealous of you dont listen to them you dont need friend like them you have your own life to live and you have the right to be happy so go for it.
2006-12-08 14:43:29 · answer #6 · answered by little_bear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if people talk about you behind your back they are not your friends and if your friends don't like him they probally know something about him that you don't no. and if thats not the case then they probally jealous of your relationship
2006-12-08 14:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends are truly friends then they should be happy for you.
As long as you are happy, live on... You can't be responsible for their feelings... and yes, they could very well be jealous.
2006-12-08 14:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are happy then don't listen to others, if they were your true friends they would stand behind you. find new friends, they sound jealous of you and your bf
2006-12-08 14:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iv been going out withthis kid for 10 weeks and all my friends act like that too. sometimes its bc their jealous and maybe you have been thinking more about him then them. ask them
good luck
2006-12-08 14:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋