should i go skinny?

Question

i am 110 and my friends are all 95-100 should i lose the extra 10 pounds for guys? since they all seem to find skinny girls attrative

the area i live in are all skinny people

height 5'1

Answer 1

I don't know your height and body frame..so I cannot give you a specific recommendation. However, even if you are somewhat close to the average height of a female at 5'4, I would not recommend you lose any weight. At that height, you would be slim already.

Believe me, the last thing you should do is become skinnier just because your friends are. They might be shorter..have a smaller frame or just too skinny! A healthy weight is a lot more important than a skinny weight.

As for me, I prefer a girl that is at a healthy weight or somewhat fit...because she has more energy and may like to eat what I eat. It is not fun going on a date and the girl only wants to eat salad and you can't share food. Besides, the guys who want only skinny girls are really shallow and you shouldn't date them anyways.

Addendum:
At 5'1, I would say you are a healthy weight. If you still want to set a goal, I would suggest trying to get lean and fit rather than just losing weight. Don't worry about it.

Answer 2

Your assertion that all men find skinny girls attractive is based on what? Speaking for myself I find skinny girls unattractive. That is not to say I'm a fat chaser either. Most men will find any woman that is height and weight proportionate to be the most attractive. They will also find women that are slightly over weight attractive as well. Of course there are those that really like anorexic women and think they are hot stuff. In doing some unofficial, unscientific reaearch and just casually asking guys about babes, it's my considered opinion that most guys prefer "curvy" women to skinny chicks. Does the term "rubenesque" mean anything to you? Look it up.

Answer 3

Wait.. what? 9lbs in only over per week?! The healthful decision is loosing between a million-2 pounds per week, yet when your too lower than pressure to look skinny and wipe away all of your probelms, because being skinny quite solves each and every thing doesnt it? So my pal ask for some "information and tricks" out of your friends on the pro ana community. satisfied to assist.

Answer 4

110 is a very appropriate weight, maybe even too small depending on your height. The right guy will come along and see you for who you are and you will be happier than if you had found a jerk that only wanted a anorexic girlfriend. Your self esteem will be better and so will your relationship.

Answer 5

O.O wha? 110 lbs.? i wish i was that.
10 lbs will not make much of a difference. u probably are already very thin.
thin is better than skinny. skinny is stick and sickly.
believe me, some men like bigger girls, or even just girls that have weight for their body size. dont try to fit a standard. those girls dont have ur body.

Answer 6

No! Not all guys liek skinny girls. If the boys you like only skinny girls, do you really want to go out with someone that superficial? Plus your at a healthy weight.

Answer 7

Yeah Right, Im not trying to be rude but you should think about that again because if the guy really loves you S*** you dont got to lose no weight for him he should love you the way you are no the way he wantes you to be.

Answer 8

if you meet a guy that is just worried about what your weight is and how skinny you are than why would you waste your time??? You should just find a guy that likes you for who you are not for how skinny or fat you are..

Answer 9

110 is skinny.... I'd say if u try to lose weight then u'll need professional help in a few months to help u gain it back.
Just be happy with how u are..

Answer 10

are you crazy you need to get some weight girl, if guys don't like you because you have 10 pounds, they not worth it...your are beutiful the way you are but just get little more weight...