Singles & Dating - 5 December 2006

He says he likes me, that I'm funny and all, we get along together, tease and flirt with each other, and he says we can hang out. However, he says he's not sure about dating because---
-he's new in college and works and has a lot going on. (that I can understand, I've been 18 and in those shoes before!)
-he's not sure of his intentions. (At least that's what I gathered...it was a confusing conversation...)
Anyone want to explain this further, or anyone got some advice? He says that later on we might have a chance, so I don't want to flirt with the guys at work and possible ruin things with him! (Did I mention we work together? The day after he gave me the "let's be friends" spill, he was very ill at ease seeming until he found out I wasn't mad or pouting with him...or seeming to be, anyways. I'm a heck of an actress, I guess.
Thanks!

2006-12-05 09:05:50 · 9 answers · asked by lillibelle14 1

she asked if i would like to play with her while her boyfriend watched ?????

I didnt know what to say

she ask if black men where more gifted in the pants

she asked if i was offended?

I laugh it off like "Oh Amy , your so funny what a silly thing to say its just the alcohol talking " (insert uncomfortable expression here)

She proceeded to pull out her cell and call her boy friend and pass me the phone a mans voice says hey, we chat for a minute and he confirms what she says is true and that they dont do this kind of thing "normaly" but she has always wondered about it and he wanted to give her her fantasy in return for her giving in to his.

well I agreed to it

now she calls me and we talk like we are in a relationship we go out and have had dates she has since spent the weekend and bought me gifts for my b-day like we are a couple

So should I now be demanding that she leave him and we do our own thing or what cus we connected and i dont think he knows???

2006-12-05 09:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by blackplatnium007 2

ok so i have loads of guy friends, but i cant get a date whats wrong with me??

2006-12-05 09:04:45 · 2 answers · asked by car_chick9 1

She has some credit card bills, and without a job, that would leave me to pay them. I'm not comfortable doing this, especially since I've just recently gotten out of debt and don't want to go there again.

2006-12-05 09:04:35 · 39 answers · asked by Lt 3

Pics on my 360.

2006-12-05 09:03:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend is at the legal drinking age, plays guitar, and is crazy as hell... im not sure what to get him for christmas... help

2006-12-05 09:03:12 · 5 answers · asked by bandit_steals_eyebrows 1

2006-12-05 09:02:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Flirting like hitting there butts and other stuff.
I'm 13 years old.

2006-12-05 09:02:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-05 09:02:55 · 6 answers · asked by cherrymary36 1

my ex boyfriends brother as rang me to see if i want to go out for lunch he his gay so its ok on that front, but me and my ex parted on bad terms and im not sure what i should say to his brother, what should i do ???

2006-12-05 09:02:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he makes subtle comments about living alone or not having a girlfriend? There is this bartender who I am attracted to and I think he might be attracted to me too but, there is that "rule of thumb" that a bartender is always nice to customers. This isn't some grand bar or anything. It is nice local bar that isn't always super busy. Any bartender's out there? Let me know what you honestly think or any clues I need to look for. Thanks!

2006-12-05 09:02:26 · 14 answers · asked by bornalib 2

My g/f wants me to dress as a girl for a day should I? I think it might be fun,

2006-12-05 09:02:24 · 15 answers · asked by Mike P 1

There is this girl from down the hall. She's exquisite. I really like her, but I never get to talk to her. Our schedules are different. The only time I see her is in passing, or in the dining hall. When we're their, she's always with friends. It would be a little awkward to just interupt them. . Anyway, I think she likes me too. The only thing is, how do I know if she's even into girls? Her facebook profile says men, but so does mine (i'm not completely out). She seems nervous around me when we are close, like in the elevator or something. The kind of nervous you are around a crush. Yesterday, when I walked into our dorm, she gasped, but then she tried to play it off saying something about opening the door for me. I just want a suggestion on how to tell if she's into me. I don't want to make an *** of myself, but I really like her.

2006-12-05 09:02:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend who wants to do this for his friend who is having a sort of costume party. He wants to know if there are any girls that find this either OK or somewhat normal. Are there any girls out there willing to help him or speak with him to give him help. He is very nice, but there is nothing I can really do for him. Any advice? Anyone want to see what he looks like? Thanks to anyone who helps! Anyone who does can get the points or the pictures.

2006-12-05 09:01:49 · 4 answers · asked by lagirltina 1

well i have this crush on a boy at my school and he knows i like him its just that i have a man and he knows it im not really fellin my man right now i d k why though. help pls lady/guy

2006-12-05 09:01:21 · 13 answers · asked by princess 1

ok well i went to skool yesterday and there's this guy in my S.S. class and we were reading ur essays and then he asked if i was goin out w/ any1 (i never have) and i said no. then he went on and i really didnt listen (i had to listen to the teacher). then coming towards the end of class i asked him wat he said. he ignored me, blushing. then the person next to him said he asked me out. i just said o, blushing. now today in class our man history teacher ewaz talkin about women and then the guy that likes me said 'I'M RIGHT HERE (MY NAME)' then every1 looked at me. i waz so embarassed all i could do is roll my eyes.then he started staring at me 4 a long time and i went wat and he started blowing me kissed

at 1st i disliked him but now i like the attention and he doesnt seem so bad

AHHHHHHHHHHH!!!! WAT DO I DO

2006-12-05 09:01:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was text chatting, and then this girl sends this?

2006-12-05 09:00:26 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4

First off, we are in a 2 hour apart long distance relationship, but spent over half our relationship together at college. We tried to see each other ever couple weeks for a weekend at a time. I transfered, we stayed together and have been making it work for almost a year. I recently found out however, from her, that she cheated on me about a month ago, and proceeded to say she only did it hoping I would find out so we could end out relationship because she was scared of telling me how she felt and having to end it herself. Naturally we broke up, but she still confesses she loves me and cares for me more than anything. All this while she has admitted to having feelings and relations with another guy at her school. What should I make of this and is it still work even staying friends or hoping we will get back together someday? I do still love her and care for her, she is my first true love, but after what she did I'm confused as to how I should view the situation.

2006-12-05 09:00:12 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

after we broke up she moved back to her parents house. it was a bad break up with screaming and fighting. for the first five days we talked a few times a day. she would call me and i would call her. we talked about starting over again. she and i both have issues to work out. i think her parents have turned her against me because the hate me. it's been nearly 5 days since she's answered my phone calls. i haven't gone 5 days without seeing her or talking to her since i've known her. i miss her so bad. i don't know if she even wants to see me. i still love her and miss her and want to start over no matter how hard it is. do you think i should go to her house to see how she is? or do you think i should just keep calling until she answers? or do i just let it die? and let my thoughts and undying love for kill me from the inside out.

2006-12-05 08:59:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently, my girlfriend I got back together after being apart for monthes, but before our break up she left me for my friend and then she said she always had feelings for me instead of him and my friends think I'm wrong for dating her again, but I will always have feelings for her. What do you think?

2006-12-05 08:58:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-05 08:58:30 · 9 answers · asked by Dana 1

where's the craziest place you've had sex? here are some of my places....got any other good ones.....?

peep show (in the hot box)
park in philly in broad daylight
front yard
parents bed
beach
sears dressing room


the list goes on i just can't think of any other good ones right now lol.

2006-12-05 08:57:42 · 10 answers · asked by Rockstar Jersey 2

I like this girl and im shy and shes shy how can u tell if she likes me?

2006-12-05 08:57:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

what to get my boyfriend for Christmas... he told me there are 6 parts to my Christmas present... and it seems like he's gettin me something amazing... and I want to get him something amazing, but I don't have that much money and he's such a difficult person to shop for.

2006-12-05 08:57:22 · 5 answers · asked by Velvet_heart 2

okay what to say to a guy i am seeing:

when i walkd off on a mood expecting him to follow me
and apologise for joking about "homies before bitches" to his friends
and then when i turn around and he already left?

he said it's my fault for leaving.

because we planned to go out alone together.
but because of that we went separate ways.
and he ignored my calls until he got home.
he's online now...and being distant...like replying every 10 mins...

i can't say he was in the wrong for leaving
because he's not my boyfriend?

what can i say?

i really like him

he doesn't seem bothered though.

2006-12-05 08:56:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in love with this man, he is 42, I am 22. He is the first guy I dated in my state. I think about him alot, but I think he is cheating on me. I have been honet with him, I never cheat just honest. I don't know what to do.

2006-12-05 08:56:33 · 8 answers · asked by angle2005star 4

i love my boyfriend so much and i thought he felt the same. we've been going out for a little over 2 months, but recently he went out drinking. he got drunk and he told me that he kissed this girl jill who i'm kinda friends. with. he and her both told me it was just a stupid peck and they both felt really bad and sorry for what they did so i got mad but i dealt with it. today in school i found out that the girl jill told everybody that they hooked up. i had my friend chris ask her if they hooked up just to make sure and she said yes right while i was standing there. i confronted my boyfriend telling him to just tell me the truth that they did so i wouldn't be as mad at the situation but he kept saying she's making it up to get attention and that he'd never do anything to hurt me. i really don't want to break up with him because we both really are in love but he did lie to me and did kiss her. please give me advice on what to do.

2006-12-05 08:55:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is how I was raised, and I was like, um who cares, if you break up in a week.So I am right or wrong.

2006-12-05 08:54:23 · 25 answers · asked by tressasmarie92 2

what are the best ways,
Any tips,
things to do things not to do,

more of a bothe facing each other way not doggy (do that all the time)

2006-12-05 08:52:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do i have to do for this guy to really like me.

2006-12-05 08:51:39 · 16 answers · asked by chica23 1