okay what to say to a guy i am seeing:
when i walkd off on a mood expecting him to follow me
and apologise for joking about "homies before bitches" to his friends
and then when i turn around and he already left?
he said it's my fault for leaving.
because we planned to go out alone together.
but because of that we went separate ways.
and he ignored my calls until he got home.
he's online now...and being distant...like replying every 10 mins...
i can't say he was in the wrong for leaving
because he's not my boyfriend?
what can i say?
i really like him
he doesn't seem bothered though.
2006-12-05 08:56:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just like my bloke hes an *** & puts his mates first!
however, i really love my gut & still together almost 4 years on (i think i would get a lesser prison scentence for armed robbery in the uk)
In my experience, men dont understand that when a woman says something or does something it usually means the opposite.
Leave him be for a few days. I know its hard but it works. He will call you & want to know why you havnt been in touch - trust me this works!
When you see him, be cold as ice & dont give anything up to him until he earns it girl!
If your both consenting adults - so to speak, things will come naturally & thats the best way to make up.
You'll see, it works. I know its hard babe but have faith in yourself.
Good Luck
2006-12-05 09:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by jo p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mind is already made up. You still like him. You will still let him walk all over you. Most likely you like it, because if you didn't you would have walked away from this a long time ago.
No matter how many people say to you to leave him, you will still go back for more. Sigh. Until you realize the truth there is no point asking and when you do wake up then you don't need us to give you the answers. Thats the irony of it all.
Just remember whether it turns out good or bad, it was your choice and you need to accept and learn from it.
2006-12-05 23:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by Razor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you went out was it supposed to be a date? Ifso you have the right to be in a mood but if it wasn't and his mates turned up you know what guys are like together so you should of just laughed the joke off (and bollocked him later lol). He's probally trying hard to get now so just try saying sorry and if he's still being distant give him some space. If he's worth it he'll come round.
2006-12-05 17:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's because he isn't. He's playing you. You know it. Yahoo Answers knows it.
Some men have gotten to the point where mutual respect is a privilege not a right. This guy is a clown and you should move on. He's playing games and toying with your emotions. Who needs that?
You like the "illusion" of him. because what you described sounds like a loser. See him for what he is and how he makes you feel. Someone that was WAY IN TO YOU wouldn't treat you that way.
Good Luck!
2006-12-05 17:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He obviously meant what he said about friends before women or else he would have gone after you. Don't waste any more time on a loser who doesn't appreciate you. Your worth more than that. He isn't worth another thought. You need to ask why you like him. Is it looks, popularity? Why on earth would you invest another moment of your time on someone who is inconsiderate on you?
2006-12-06 08:56:30 · answer #5 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to forget about that evening.
then ask if he fancies going out - just the two of you?
that way you will at least know what hes thinking.
as for the distance thing online. after you ask those questions - dont talk to him again- let him do a bit of the running!
boys dont like a push over!
2006-12-05 17:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... i can take care of you better than him, so you should dump his *** for me ;) but there is a rule that guys have "bros before hoes" cause friends come first, not some chic that you're seeing. and if you're going to get mad about that and walk away, i wouldn't chase after you either. (i actually, i wouldn't leave your side cause ur *****ng hott ;)) and he probably thinks ur mad at him now. if you really like him though, just tell him it doesn't bother you and move on from there!
2006-12-05 17:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
all lads think they are right all the time but there not i no u left him first but still he shouldn't of said that! he might not be your boyfriend but still he shouldn't just go if he was with you that night he should of asked you where you were going at least he isn't worth it if he is going to be like that but if u do reli like him then i understand you will not want to argue just explain to him that he shouldn't of said them things and that you are sorry for walking off.
2006-12-05 17:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by kinkypinky 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although you seem not to be bothered about this guy, I think you fancy him, but are afraid to say this. He may also like you, but somehow you seem to put him off through your actions. So in future act maturely and see whether his interest in you will be aroused.
2006-12-05 17:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by marizani 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say wait and see what happenes in the next few days. If he's still distant ask him what's wrong.
2006-12-05 16:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋