i love my boyfriend so much and i thought he felt the same. we've been going out for a little over 2 months, but recently he went out drinking. he got drunk and he told me that he kissed this girl jill who i'm kinda friends. with. he and her both told me it was just a stupid peck and they both felt really bad and sorry for what they did so i got mad but i dealt with it. today in school i found out that the girl jill told everybody that they hooked up. i had my friend chris ask her if they hooked up just to make sure and she said yes right while i was standing there. i confronted my boyfriend telling him to just tell me the truth that they did so i wouldn't be as mad at the situation but he kept saying she's making it up to get attention and that he'd never do anything to hurt me. i really don't want to break up with him because we both really are in love but he did lie to me and did kiss her. please give me advice on what to do.
2006-12-05 08:55:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl listen, get over this it's only been 2 months. You will find someone else that will respect himself and you. Drop your friend too, she's no better. I hate when girls have pity parties and feel bad because of what some jerk of a guy did. Trust me it will hurt for awhile but you will get over it. Life is too short. I don't know if you are in highschool but you will meet tons of guys.
2006-12-05 09:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been dating for only two months and already he has kissed another girl? It doesn't matter that he was drunk, he still did it, and then lied to you. Either have a long talk with him and decide you can trust him, or break up with him.
2006-12-05 08:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by argylemoose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you trust the most . If you know your boyfriend would not lie ,work it out but if you know he has lied before get rid of him. Hey, I say it's best to find out if he is a liar from the start than to learn later on.
2006-12-05 09:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by LadyT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, I got some news for you. He is sick of you and got a better deal somewhere else. Who knows maybe you are NOT his type or you are boring. Anyway, move on girl because if you do not with your emotions like that you will be his ***** or late night desert!! Do you want to be like that??????
2006-12-05 09:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine what he hasn't told you. You forgive an innocent 'peck' today, what will you let him get away with tomorrow? Think about that and see if you still love him.
2006-12-05 09:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Derek K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him. A kiss isn't something to break up over. Believe me.
2006-12-05 08:57:49 · answer #6 · answered by unkle_sassage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have been dating for only 2 months---i highly doubt if it is true love
for 2 years yes.....u have to decide if u can forgive and forget--if u can then try staying -- if not move on
2006-12-05 08:58:20 · answer #7 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you better to leave him while he's not your husband.if he cant be honest to you how much more in the near future.how many times he'll get drunk and kiss somebody else.dont waste your time with that kind of man.
2006-12-05 08:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least he told you he had kissed her. I mean, if he was REALLY cheating, he would have kept quiet, so would this Jill person.
2006-12-05 09:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by Cassie♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two Long months invested, and he is having sex with another girl.
To see if he REALLY loves you make him wait until you are married before going to bed with him.
otherwise, you will never know.
Peace!
2006-12-05 08:58:42 · answer #10 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋