Singles & Dating - 3 December 2006

well we are practically strangers from each other, he was my classmate for about two semesters, one time we sat together and i dont know we just started conversing and he told me about his life, we talked for about 45 mins.weird thing is there was a rally going on and we where talking about something else , like society and rebellion,
we text each other once in a while, and talk about life in general, he once told me im the only one who makes sense when texting him, i told him i had a crush on his friend and he was saying ok fine, and then he just thinks im texting him to get to know the other guy, when in fact i text him because i treasure the friendship we have started
now im too shy to even see him at the hallway, i cant even talk to him, because i know i seriously have developed something else for him, what am i really feeling, im too shy to look at his eyes, too shy to talk to him , i text him, we text each other but in person i cant do it.

2006-12-03 17:18:17 · 6 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6

I'm not sure if he's abnormal or just sexual. He wanted to see me without my clothes on, so I sent him a photo of me in my 2 piece bikini. He said he loved it, but wanted to see me more pics of me without my bikini top or bottom. What should I do?

2006-12-03 17:18:04 · 19 answers · asked by kristypammy 1

I just want your opinion, i mean should u just jump right into one if you think it will be a good relationship or should u shun every male that comes by and tells u that ur beautiful for three months? let me kno!!!

2006-12-03 17:16:39 · 12 answers · asked by kisha D 1

This is going to sound silly, but my boyfriend bought my sister and me World of Warcraft to play. Recently I've been working very strange hours because of Christmas. I'm working in retail at the moment (Christmas help). They usually have me scheduled to work on the weekends. I worked the greater part of today actually.

Anyway, while I'm at work, they're usually at their seperate homes playing that and doing Team Speak (my sister doesn't have a job, and he is off for the weekend). I just feel so left out. They're having a good time together and I'm at work not knowing what's going on. I don't think my sister would take him away from me, I just can't help feeling insecure. I'm worried he'll like her more or have more fun with her. I just don't know what to do or how to feel. I wish I didn't feel like this. I'm just really insecure.

2006-12-03 17:16:20 · 5 answers · asked by New mommy 2010! 4

No matter what time i go to bed, i can never wake up in the morn. i mean i have to push the snooz button at least 4 times and i end up waking up late and have to rush out the door.

2006-12-03 17:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by carriec 7

How many heartbreaks did you go though until you met the one?

I had a very bad one in college. Now I think I have set myself up for another. Ugh!!!!

2006-12-03 17:15:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've gone out with a guy who is 20 years old. I'm 32. We went out several months ago, and hit it off well and then decided that our age difference was too much. Since then, we've remained great friends, and we've even hooked up sexually a few times. So I guess we've been off and on even though we've remained friends. Sometimes he tells me that our difference in age doesn't matter, but the other day, he told me that when we first got together, he thought that we connected so well, and he liked me so much that he wanted to date me. But he said that our age difference scared him. Whenever we're together though, he says that he can't even tell a difference in ages, that we connect so well. I feel the same way. What do you people think about it? I mean, do you think we could actually have something that lasts a while, or do you think he'll outgrow me? Don't many people outgrow relationships anyway, regardless of age? Like, you can't pretend to hold onto anyone, right?

2006-12-03 17:14:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok really waht should I do people think it could be mine but yeah hello we didnt have sex when i was dating her and my gf at the same time. I may be a cheat but at least im a clean one. What should I do to get people off of my back?

2006-12-03 17:13:15 · 13 answers · asked by slaphappy 3

I spend a lot of time with my boyfriend. We live 120 miles apart, but somehow find the way to sleep together almost every night. I love being with him, but sometimes we are forced to be apart for school, work, etc. I have spent the past 5 nights with him and now when I come home I feel so alone. I start to miss him a lot, seems like I miss him almost TOO much. I lay in bed and falling asleep without just doesn't feel the same and it makes me feel lonely and depressed. Is this normal?

2006-12-03 17:10:48 · 9 answers · asked by jennytkd13 3

just curious.. heehee

2006-12-03 17:10:33 · 7 answers · asked by Its me! 3

I love him?
i think im in love with a guy. but hes not good for me. isnt rich. wont be able to support me and future family.its not about the money, im worried that i might end up doing all the work , while he watches tv. hes an idiot. hes a liar and on top of it all a horney man who likes girls alot. and yet says he loves me. and only me.
not worth it?




not to mention hes older than me. by 11 years.


i just had a talk with him telling him that i dont want to take our relationship any further than friends. even though i have dreams at night about him.


but on the other hand he is a sweet guy. The only guy that i believe truly loves me. and maybe im letting it go? and maybe ill never find it again.

i went out with him before but i left him for stupid reasons other than my feelings towards him.
please help.

2006-12-03 17:10:06 · 4 answers · asked by weenie d 1

well, my bff and two of my other friends and i all like the same guy. one day, all three of them start saying whata jerk he is, but he seemed fine to me. my bff was talking about what a jerk he is, but it doesn't seem so bad to me.(what he said) she no longer likes him and i feel that i shouldn't, but i do. she said that its ok if i still like him, i do, but it feels wrong. should i let him go, or is it natural to feel this way? plz help and thank u!

2006-12-03 17:05:33 · 7 answers · asked by L 5

2006-12-03 17:04:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

not the thing that i dont know but, i want the exact meaning.OK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-03 17:04:00 · 9 answers · asked by gundu9428 1

about 2 months ago we broke up, now we are talking trying to work on things. But the thing is he started seeing another women, aout 2 weeks before. I do know that he is still sometimes talking to her. I do not think she wants to deal with him untill he calls it quits with us. When I ask him to move back home, he tells me we need to work on "us" some more. Is it just a ploy so he can see if the grass is greener on the other side? Also I have called it off with him, 3 times told him not to call me, that I was done with him. But he always calls and tells me he wants to work things out. Should I not just take his calls anymore?

2006-12-03 17:03:52 · 8 answers · asked by lynnn30 4

I'm 18 year old male in Canada. I was just wondering how you would want a guy like me to approach you? Would you want me to wait for eye contact and then approach? Would you want me to be indirect or direct? that is... start fluff talk with "its so cold blah blah" or just the awkward "hey how are you?" if you're wondering why i dont already have a girlfriend its because i just moved and im new in town and i live on my own.

2006-12-03 17:03:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so I knew him for almost 3 years now, he went out with my ex-bestfriend for 2 years, they broke up like 2 months ago and the other night he called me drunk! telling me that he always liked me and not his ex! he said that when i used to sleep over at my friend's house, he wanted to cuddle with me and not with her, he told me beautiful stuff. We hang out on friday but we didn't kiss. He was hanging out with his ex and that's kinda uncomfortable to me and he called me last night at 1am saying that he wanted to see me and that he'll call me later. He didn't call, I texted message him and he didn't respond either. I'm confused, what hsould I do? I don't think he still has feelings for his ex. I like him so much and I had a crush on him for 2 years and he did too...do you think he's interested in me? or maybe i'm just paranoid, i never felt this way before!! HELP!
please just serious answers. Thank you.

2006-12-03 17:03:05 · 9 answers · asked by Svetlana 2

I have been experimenting around eating asparagus and other foods that change the smell of urine and I think I have finally perfected it to the smell I really like. I finally have got enough gallons of urine saved up and I have filled up the bath tub and placed my clothes in them for soaking. I had to add some food coloring to make it all match with the reds and blues. If I let them soak from 1:00 am to 6:00 am will that be enough for my clothes to last all day with that fresh urine smell? Man...i'm drooling right now as I talk about it...man i'm pumped about tommorow at school!!

2006-12-03 17:01:43 · 19 answers · asked by Lucky L 1

I've been with my boyfriend for about six months now, and we are trying to have sex. It seems every time we try he gets an irection, but once inside me its like he cant perform.. and we end up not doing anything.. Is it possible that he may be too small? because he has problems keeping it in..

2006-12-03 16:57:42 · 10 answers · asked by LT 1

I had a one nite stand. I cheated. Felt horrible...god awfully horrible. The one nighter ended up pregnant and had an abortion. After that, I severed all ties. Deleted her number the whole nine. I tried to hide my horrible mistake and learn from it. I got caught by a random text message while trying to figure out who it was. (turned out it was the one night girl) Confessed to my girlfriend. Told her everything. She somehow said she still loved me. I swore it was a one time deal. I even gave her the one nighter's number to prove my honesty. My girlfriend is calling her tomorrow to make sure it was only once. With the **** the other girl went through, what are the chances she'll lie about how many times we slept together just to spite me?

2006-12-03 16:56:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would u say if i told u that u r the sexist person in the world?........but u didnt know me.........reactions......

2006-12-03 16:55:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this guy who was a total sweetie, but once i really hung out with him for the first time, he was really pushy. like he kept doing things after i told him not to. things i just wasnt into. and he was all tryin to be all over me the first time we hung out. which is ok, to like hand hold and thinsg like that. but he was literally ALL OVER me and i was tryin to tell him to stop. this happened last night and today he has been ringin the phone off the hook and tellin me that he was thinkin about me and that im HIS angel. its kind of scarey how attatched me he already is and we havent even kissed. he makes me uncofortable. what do i do? stay away from him and avoid him, or just tell him i dont want to talk to him. i mean he asked me out last night and i was like no, this is only the first time we have hung out. but i think he thought i was joking cuz he changed his myspace to in a relationship. im like whoa, ur really scarey. what do i do, he is really nice and i dont want to hurt him?

2006-12-03 16:54:39 · 16 answers · asked by linderlou2006 2

what should i do?

2006-12-03 16:54:32 · 8 answers · asked by =]] 1

I am so in love with my boyfriend but and he treats me perfectly except for when he lies about the stupidest things! Things that don't matter..but he lies about little things so often that it frustrates me like no other. He knows how upset i get and I have broken up with him many times over it. We are so perfect except for that...does anyone have advice on what i should do?!?

2006-12-03 16:53:40 · 15 answers · asked by therapist 3

i think im in love with a guy. but hes not good for me. isnt rich. wont be able to support me and future family. hes an idiot. hes a liar and on top of it all a horney man who likes girls alot.
not worth it?

2006-12-03 16:52:36 · 9 answers · asked by weenie d 1

What is the difference between playful flirting and flirting with intention?? Can someone, preferably a guy explain a guy's intentions when flirting to me? THANK YOU! :)

Have a goodnight! :)

2006-12-03 16:51:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, i told this guy i liked him and all is going well but 1 problem; we havent gone on a date yet any sugestions? remember im only in the 8th grade. :D and going to the movies is so ordianry and i wanna get to know him better. thanks for all your help!!!!

2006-12-03 16:50:31 · 2 answers · asked by lauranakf 2

A girl that I've been talking to for quite a while, ask me that question and I simply said no. "/

2006-12-03 16:50:04 · 8 answers · asked by georgie0515 1

I found out my ex called his ex back. Took her out to dinner. He explained that he felt bad that he stopped talking to her when we were together. Also she has dogs and he misses the dogs. He wanted to see them again. Is this crap or what?

2006-12-03 16:49:14 · 11 answers · asked by lala15 3

I'm from Toronto, Canada and I have a boyfriend here, but I met this guy when I was Princeton University in New Jersey last year. I came back to Toronto about 6 months ago, and the guy I met in Princeton comes up to visit me about once a month, sometimes more, but we talk on the phone every day and we email each other and everything, and I really like him and we are thinking of getting married.

But my boyfriend here in Toronto has no clue about any of this. If my other boyfriend from NJ proposes to me, that would mean I could move to New Jersey with him since he lives there and he's an American citizen. I really love him so much, but I don't know what to do about my current boyfriend? I was thinking that I may get married, go through the immigration process, and just leave and cut of connection with him completely?

I know it sounds awful but I don't know what else to do. I just don't feel like I love him anymore because I love the man I met in NJ. Please tell me what to do!

2006-12-03 16:46:31 · 10 answers · asked by BOOB 1