I've been with my boyfriend for about six months now, and we are trying to have sex. It seems every time we try he gets an irection, but once inside me its like he cant perform.. and we end up not doing anything.. Is it possible that he may be too small? because he has problems keeping it in..
2006-12-03 16:57:42 · 10 answers · asked by LT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well he may be too small, but thats not always a bad thing he just needs to learn how to use it....try telling him not to get too excited and try different positions. You have only been together for 6 months give it time. Good luck
2006-12-03 17:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by speedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he might have performance anxiety - and every time he fails, his anxiety increases. It might also be that you're starting too soon, before he's really ready.
For God's sake, don't even hint that he might be too small because that will make his anxiety much worse. And it's bullshit. No man is too small. "It's not the length of the wand, it's the magic of the magician."
I suggest that you play a game which is that you're allowed to do anything in bed - EXCEPT have penetration. Hopefully this will result in longer periods of his being erect. Once he sees that he can keep an erection for a long period of time, hopefully he'll become more confident and eventually you can cap your lovemaking with a "grand finale" that will be satisfying for you both.
2006-12-03 17:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by aprilfool108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask ur boyfreind to concentrate on sex and nothing else while having sex this will surely help :-D becos i faced the same pblm like i cudnt do it initally becos many thoughts came over my mind but nxt time i was just thinkin abt sex and it worked !!!!
2006-12-03 17:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him what is going on. Make sure your not just laying there. Be aggressive, take some control. Make him want you. Talk dirty, that always does it. Good luck.
2006-12-03 17:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears that you and your boyfriend are both about 12 or so. Am I right? When you grow up it will be easier and he will be bigger and not so nervous.
2006-12-03 17:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by badBrad97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow um send him to a doctor or talk to him without putting pressure on him.
2006-12-03 17:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by slaphappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, is he white? LoL- naw jus playing wit chu'. I have no answer/advice for u. im stuck~
2006-12-03 17:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by lil6luetrou6le 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, one, wear sexy clothing and talk sexual to him and like do that suff
2006-12-03 17:01:50 · answer #8 · answered by Daggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry i havent had a problem with that
2006-12-03 17:03:27 · answer #9 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try somebody else......life is to keep going.....
2006-12-03 17:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by paradise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋