I had a one nite stand. I cheated. Felt horrible...god awfully horrible. The one nighter ended up pregnant and had an abortion. After that, I severed all ties. Deleted her number the whole nine. I tried to hide my horrible mistake and learn from it. I got caught by a random text message while trying to figure out who it was. (turned out it was the one night girl) Confessed to my girlfriend. Told her everything. She somehow said she still loved me. I swore it was a one time deal. I even gave her the one nighter's number to prove my honesty. My girlfriend is calling her tomorrow to make sure it was only once. With the **** the other girl went through, what are the chances she'll lie about how many times we slept together just to spite me?
2006-12-03 16:56:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some other considerations: I did talk to the one nighter alot during the time leading up to the termination of the pregnancy and I also paid for half of the fees. The one nighter and I agreed on our irresponsibility. BUT she didn't know I was in a relationship.
2006-12-03 17:07:20 · update #1
ugh, sticky. No way to predict it, but you sound like a decent guy who messed up and learned his lesson. If you believe in karma, as I do, then she will not lie. Hopefully even if she does, you can convince your g/f of the truth. Good luck to you. Please don't do that anymore. :)
2006-12-03 16:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by ca_kerri 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suppose the chances are higher that she will try and spite you if you didn't assist her in taking care of her problem. If you tried to see it through and she understands this was a one night stand from the beginning and you didn't make any promises to her that it was more, then the chances are lower that she will try and "get even." It totally depends on the girl, her personality and if she is a revengeful type. I don't think you were wrong to confess to your girlfriend. I think that was completely honest of you, and you were very lucky she wants to stay with you, but it makes sense because being honest and feeling so badly as you do about the whole thing is the proper way to be. Tell your girlfriend that you are worried the other girl will lie, and tell her why, so you can at least prepare her.
2006-12-03 17:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by mch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did/does the one nighter know you had a girlfriend ?? I believe it all depends on how strong the one nighter feels for you. If she's on the verge of "fatal attraction" she'll lie and say you two spent weeks and months together and blah blah blah. If she just likes you because you were nice or good in bed, she'll be shocked admit to the one nighter and call it a night (probably swearing that males suck and you suck and she's threw with you but you might be safe). Good luck
2006-12-03 17:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by the_wicked_itch_of_the_west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how your gf talks to her...if she is rude or mean the one nighter might lie out of spite and she also might hang up on her because what she went through was worse than what you went through and ahe proabably feels very used. good luck.
2006-12-03 16:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest if a man treated me that way i would get him in all the trouble i could even if it meant lieing to do it. I hope for your sake and your gf's that she tells the truth but i wouldn't hold my breath
2006-12-03 16:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you give your girlfriend your "fling's" phone number, it wasn't up to YOU to do so. So now you've given your girlfriend the okay to invade a strangers privacy? I don't know what your chances are at anything...obviously you have no morals, no values and no manners.
2006-12-03 17:00:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU WERE HONEST WITH YOUR GIRL THEN IT SHOULD
NOT MATTER WHAT THE OTHER GIRL SAY. BUT YOU SHOULD LEARN THAT WHEN YOU NOT UP FRONT WITH
YOUR GAME IT WILL COME BACK. BECAUSE IT SOUND
LIKE THE ONLY REASON THAT YOU TOLD HER IS BECAUSE
THE OTHER GIRL TEXT YOU. OTHER WISE YOU WOULD
NOT HAVE SAID ANYTHING. SO JUST LEARN FROM THIS.
2006-12-03 17:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the girl if she is wanting to make your life hell she'll lie if not she'll tell the truth
2006-12-03 17:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by james_lynne1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll probably tell your girlfriend that you were married for 2 years
2006-12-03 17:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say pray and pray and pray--and just maybe this girl is honest and wont try and hurt you
2006-12-03 17:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋