Well, about a year ago I met a really great guy.... we get along fabulously. We are so comfortable and have so much fun. We are so attracted to each other...the sex is incredible. I could definitely spend the rest of my life with him. We have our moments when we have snags, but that's pretty normal. Generally though, everything is wonderful. We are different people, but have very similar backgrounds, and have lots in common. We have similar careers and education. He absolutely adores me....treats me fantastically....tells me I'm beautiful, can't wait to see me, loves my looks... Everything seems to be very good.
One really big issue - he's married.
He's never promised he'd leave his wife. He loves his children, but I suspect things are not so great between the two of them. He is afraid of losing his children and constantly tells me he doesn't want me putting my life on hold for him. He has made me promise to tell him if my feelings for him go further. He is very concerned about what we're doing, as am I. We both know it's very, very wrong, but...... it's like we can't help ourselves. We're adults and certainly know better....but it's like there is another force guiding us.
Do you think that God has made this happen for a reason? I do believe things happen for a reason. I just can't figure out what the reason for this is. I keep wondering if this guy is my soul-mate. There are SO many things that we just "click" on. It's like we know each other inside and out.....sometimes it feels like we're the same person.
I'm not excusing our actions.... believe me. If someone were to ask me these questions and read this story, I'd say that they are very, very wrong and should stop right now. But.... we just can't.
Now what do I do?
2006-12-03
12:51:11
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QueenChristine
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